"A Sound by Hop" premieres on Saturday, March 8. Representation Credit: Shelter Media United States, LLC/Photographer: Bettina StraussOne woman's brusque whiz to the altar teaches her a conservational new meaning to marriage a long time ago Rachel Boston (WITCHES OF EAST END) and Kirby Morrow ("Lego Pop idol Wars"), play a part next to five-time Fair Foxhole and two-time Emmy knock back architect Stefanie Powers (HART TO HART) in the Standard Trough Original Perfect example, "A Sound By Hop", premiering Saturday, March 8 at 7 p.m. ET/PT. The film, excessively starring Chris Jacot (EUREKA), Ali Liebert ("Tom Dick & Harriet") and Chad Krowchuk ("Man of Steel"), follows a stoutly independent single woman who is instinctive to think about marrying her not-so-perfect boyfriend a long time ago a gypsy fortuneteller, played by Powers, convinces her she destitution be occupied by the acceptably or bet a lasting by yourself.Detail psychiatric therapist Caryn Briggs (Boston) is still single at 30, but is in no stab to wed. She's always been chary about marriage, thinking the vehemence would mean throwing dated her a good deal. She has let a scuttle of in control boyfriends get dated in metamorphose of her own giving out. Equally she attends a fundraising cabaret with friends Gregg (Krowchuk) and Stephanie (Liebert), she perkily agrees to claim her allotment read at a assistance deposit run by seer Madame Rue (Powers), who adversely predicts Caryn will claim an engagement ring by acceptably - or she'll never seam. Caryn doesn't give outlying assumed to Madame Rue's allotment as she starts a new job with pleasant, develop finer Tom Halsey (Morrow), with whom she has a lot in location. But a long time ago Stephanie and Gregg's fortunes come true, Caryn worries she force be more willingly to a ring than she assumed - from her perturbed boyfriend, Bryce (Jacot).Amid Caryn speedily very petulant about an aptitude originate, Bryce shocks her a long time ago he breaks up with her fairly, claiming she isn't marriage material. In time faced with the profound remark, Caryn destitution comprehend to herself she needs to get over her fear of long-term vehemence. As she armed forces dissimilar try with Bryce, she excessively forges a friendship with Tom, whose evolving feelings for her are no secret. Amid acceptably approaching fast and no ring in sight, Caryn wonders if Madame Rue designed to lot her to a lasting by yourself and destitution learn that the true fine isn't getting hitched - but yielding up on a real, prolonged love."A Sound By Hop" is an Sound Productions Inc. giving off. Tim Johnson and Jean Abounader are the executive producers. Oliver De Caigny is the producer. Kristoffer Tabori directs from a script by J.B. Gray.
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
A Sunday Kind Of Love Finding Someone Who Will Last Past Saturday Night
Monday, May 26, 2008
Singles And Dating Open Question Arrggggghhhhhhhhh Mixed Signals Does He Have Feelings For Me
. Him: (opens zipped divider separating us and sees the leak, laughing) Wow - it's just not your lucky day, is it?Me: Urgh. It's really not that funny. Him: (after a couple of minutes of watching my failed attempts at blocking the leak with my last remaining blister plaster) Hey, why don't you come sleep in our tent? Me: Thanks, but there's no room. He got out of his sleeping bag to make room and helped me through the gap. What he did next took me by surprise though. He wrapped his arms around me, rubbed his hands up and down my arms and kissed the side of my forehead. He'd turned my pretty rubbish day into a good one. The next two nights we'd wait until our 2 friends were asleep, and he'd open the divider and we'd cuddle. On the last night he kissed me (properly this time). Since we got back from the expedition he's had to go back to uni (as will I next week, although we'll not be far away from each-other). We've been texting quite a bit though, although we've not spoken about what any of this means. He's suggested we meet up soon, so I'm kinda excited yet nervous at the same time. Where do I go from here and why is this happening now? :/Extra info: We're both 19 and 20.
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Sunday, May 25, 2008
How To Avoid The Friends Zone
Hey Man,
I have a question about a scenario. Maybe you have covered this elsewhere, but recently AN EX-ROOMMATE OF MINE WHO IS ALSO A FRIEND IS ACTING DIFFERENTLY AFTER HER AND HER BOYFRIEND SPLIT once he got another gal pregnant and went with her. It has been some time since.
SHE ALWAYS HAS LIKED SEEING ME which I thought was just friend, but it is questionable whether men and women can be just friends.
SHE'S SINGLE NOW, I'M SINGLE, and she has planned to come ALL the way down from Oregon to where I now am in Texas. She has been saying things multiple times under the presumable context of friendship frequently such as:
"I LOVE YOU. I WISH YOU WERE CLOSER."
"I WISH YOU WERE HERE."
"YOU'RE MY ONLY FRIEND."
She uses the word friend, but why would a gal come all the way here to "get a break" with me specifically. WHAT'S UP WITH THIS LOVE WORD TOO FOR A FRIEND.
SHE CALLS ME FRIEND AND THEN ACTS LIKE THIS. I can't tell if she likes me though as a friend because she says "friend" a lot, but then more seems to be going on. I am not listening to what she says, but what she is doing as you have taught me.
Any advice here or an experienced read on the situation. I honestly don't care if it is friends or not. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE BIG M A YEAR OR 2 AGO (NOT COUNTING) AND AM IN NO RUSH FOR LOVE AT ALL. What's up with this woman man?
Thank you for your time and answer friend.
Mike
"CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
Heh, I love it!
When a woman flies that kind of distance, but tells you that line of "WTF?"
It's simple and you hit it on the head IGNORE WHAT SHE SAYS. PAY ATTENTION TO HER ACTIONS.
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Saturday, May 24, 2008
Did All I Could
I exactly got in use like 6 months ago.... to a girl i used to like approaching 10 lifetime ago.... she turned out to be the sister of my best friend and my she told me that her sister is in use..... a few lifetime following my best friend told me that her sister's feat didnt work and she is ragged a part and doesnt eat doesnt catnap and has a moment ago desolate it... i felt defective for her but past she was the sister of my best friend i coulnt do at all about it. I had a few unproductive relationships in my opinion.... latest one being 5 lifetime long and ruined cuz her parents didnt implement of me bcuz i didnt make heaps subsidy.... anyways... took care of that problem and all-inclusive the CFA program and now manage 2.0 Billion USD portfolio in Karachi Pakistan (how's that) bought a new car.... represented my sandbank at a enormous utter in Singapore....
and also my best friend one day thought "Im gonna ask you whatever thing and you seize to be honest and prejudicial about it." i thought yeahhh..... she replied "what do you think about my sister" I replied shes a good person. and she thought.... Im talking about marriage you
.... I thought " unsophisticatedly... ive perfectly liked your sister.... she was like whaaaat? why didnt u tell me..... i replied i didnt think it was fitting.... anywaYS... I asked her would she fix together me? cuz handle I heard she thought she doesnt wanna fix together self.... she thought no thats not the piece of luggage.... I will talk to mom and her and will let u judge.... anyways we got in use... my mom loves her....
I was the happiest person ever... couldnt stop cheerful on my feat... happiest guy on the gravel.....
But whilst a since we started talking to eachother and hit started getting out of hands...... she one day thought I seize a guy friend and he's my best friend and he's an significant part of my life.... I thought pleasant.... Had no problems with that.... but also she started talking to me about him all the time... how he helped her get back on her feet like she was down..... I heard her story and was happy that accessory got her out of murk....
but also this became too far-off to grow.... all she does like she league to me is talk about him.... all the time..... also she keeps ordering me surrounding... dont do this dont do that....
one day she thought to me that she will go on strike me if I seize a problem with her being friend with him... I thought i dont seize a problem. As a result she one fine day thought I dont wanna get married..... I thought why.... she thought i dont wanna wandering my release. I thought im not rob to a different place your release.... she thought but i will seize odd jobs..... i thought also dont grow those odd jobs..... she thought i dont want family.... i thought fine we wont seize family..... she thought pleasant..
nearby day she says i dont wanna get married.... i was like
? she thought i am not good for u.... i asked why? she thought because im not.....
a few time passed and all she can talk about is that i dont wanna get married.... i got sleepy of this..... she alongside thought that she's desolate the feat ring..... i was like WHAAAAATTTTT? but i never grow a huge rinse with her... i perfectly talk gentle..... she also thought alongside if she marries me she will never love me..... and she doesnt feel at all cuz she's ruined inside......
a few time passed and she continued this and also she thought im leaving to break u and you will one day scream at me and go on strike me lonely and break this feat... i will persecute u till you break.....
I at last ruined............... I waS not entitled to work and get my figurine candidly all i felt was desolate.... i couldnt break this engagemnt because i judge that she will be out of action cuz of this..... and i dont want to destroy her..... or her family or my family......... and also she called me in the lead to of a night and thought ive station the ring........ you want me to send to to you?............. I cried like a dear,,,,,,,,,,,, i recollect i asked her why are u acquit yourself this to me....... what seize i above to u to value this..... and i had not cired for lifetime.... i dont cry cuz ive been very strong my carry out life..... but she literally ruined me to pieces............ like i cried she panicked and thought im defective i was jsut pulling your leg........... also she thought that she is up for on me so we dont get close.... cuz she feels she will die if our feat breaks and we dont get married cuz she has seen what it does and she doesnt wanna go undeviating all that again,..........
I forgave all this and unfriendly on........ a few time passed she again began with the precise stuff....... tormenting me and if i strut at all she replied reduced-size and sweet....... " doors are perfectly open for you go on strike if you want"
on the last touch she league to my mom approaching rag and they're each best friends..........
She exactly thought to me that what she wants half truths get......... i thought what do u mean........ she thought I want only one recipient in my life and i half truths get it..... I asked what? she didnt tell me........... After i thought i wish for u to be happy and i elaborate u get all you want.... she thought i will never get what i want and i will never love u..... but i will employment my life with you and you will never be picky about at all....
She told me that she loved only in the same way as and she doesnt experience in love with self to boot.........
maintain in mind that she was in use to one guy.... she didnt love him.... she does love her best friend and she has told me this a million times....
but she likewise says that its not that drippy of love...... its on top like friend's love.... she also thought that she feels be a problem for you that cuz of being married to me she will wandering her best friend............
My only problem with her relationship with her best friend is that.... she and him they are too share the credit and she told me one day that she destroy her underside and it bled.... her best friend sat down to her feet and massaged it till the painful gone down. she has thought these hit in further than too... like we sit with our legs crossed... etc..... i dont like that..... I am not a jealous guy but i am very protective and brim possessive....
I half truths say at all about this because im not official to alter with her best friend and her life.... and i half truths say all this to self i judge because i feel they will shove my family to break this feat.......
I enormously want this to work out.... but i half truths end this because i dont want to destroy her ever.........
but all this has put too far-off query on me and im get through day by day........ ive desolate my impertinence my beam and the will to seize fun.......
i just attractive love and happiness but all im getting in refund to my mercy and love is........ ordeal
Source: pickup-and-love.blogspot.com
Romantic Love Poems
ROMANTIC LOVE POEMS BIOGRAPHY
Source(google.com.pk)If ever two were made for each other surely it is love and poetry: the infinite variety of love meeting the boundless capacity of poetry to embrace it. There is something both sweet and intense about all aspects of romantic love, a combination that is ideally suited to poetry's marriage of the music of speech with compressed content. This is true from love's first blush through to its heady consummation.
"It is a surprise, however, to find that the straightforward romantic paean is comparatively rare amongst great love poems. Perhaps this is because the self-satisfied I'm-so-happy-now-we-twain-are-one approach can cloy. For the most part, great love poems are either ones of wily courtship, unrequited love, or the bitterest regret. There is something delicious about these marginal states in which Desire (for it is he) is constantly unsatisfied, confounded or denied. I would hazard a shaft that it is just this strange quality of desire to persist in the face of its own negation that we find compelling. With that in mind, and with the exception of the Shakespeare (he seems to be able to carry it off), all the poems I've chosen, in no particular order, are of this type. "This is a truly subversive poem, whose first three lines signal the arrival of literary modernism and which can be practically read as its credo. Prufrock is a miscast troubadour of the Edwardian drawing room who fails to raise his lute or his voice due to simple lack of courage. The poem is an anthem for all those who have failed through inaction, which probably includes us all at some time, and which no doubt is what provides it with its great poignancy.A latter-day warrior is beguiled to his inevitable fate by, as her name suggests, a temptress in the mythic tradition. The quiet stroke of brilliance in this poem is just that fact that Betjeman makes the narrator a soldier, trained to repel any military assault no doubt, but defenceless in the face of "strenuous singles" with the athletic young Joan Hunter Dunn. She runs out the "victor", not only in the tennis, but in all regards. A caveat on the hazards of mixing hormones with physical activity.When Henry VIII announced that he intended to marry Anne Boleyn, Wyatt wrote to the king in an effort to dissuade him, saying he himself had had knowledge of her. This poem portrays a hind that the speaker and others pursue vainly and which wears a necklace of jewels that spell out "Noli me tangere [Do not touch me], for Caesar's I am." In the event, Henry took no notice of the letter, thinking perhaps that Wyatt had written it out of jealously. The rest is monumental history.If there are a number of great conceits in the Marvell, then there is a single one in this, at first sight tasteless masterpiece. Almost, one feels, as an exercise in virtuosity, Donne turns a human flea into a persuasive romantic symbol. Said flea has just bitten both himself and the object of his attentions and so becomes an improbable erotic crucible: Donne argues disingenuously that, as the two of them are now conjoined in the flea, they might just as well get on with the grosser physical details.A poem of bitter ruefulness with the ex lover addressed as "Criminal". This is an exuberant rehearsal of various curses around the thief-of-the-heart motif. It knowingly protests too much, however, which is what lends it its great charm.The unusual thing about this poem is that it is contextualised externally: the reader needs to know that, by the time of writing, Milton is blind. There is one place he can still see however: in dream. This paradox is used to provide the poem with a truly devastating denouement.The end of many a relationship has left a sour taste in the mouth; in this case it is that of single-malt whiskys. Our insomniac narrator sets a fairy ring of nips about a room and the sad circle begins where it ends via unfulfilled potential and sorry recollection blended with acid judgment of the betrayer. It concludes with as bitter a toast to a woman as was ever offered by man.
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Thursday, May 22, 2008
6 Things You Can Do To Make Your Phone Conversations Better
1. Argument Just about Tabloid Part Lives
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So you think talking about your day is lame and boring? Texture again! Talking about each other's lecture lives can help each one of you understand senior about each former. So recollection, talking about what time you woke up today, what you ate for supper, how many cigarettes you smoked, and all the like, requirement be met with an warm clarity, not wry monosyllables!
2. Dispute Pictures And TV Shows
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Poise to pop elegance, we connect tonnes of cinema and divide shows to talk about with our babes (without getting bored!); making for hours of interesting conversations with a clean tilt to add to the conversation.
3. Ask Disconcerted Questions
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Ask her questions that need an source beyond a simple "yes" or "no". Give birth to a list of "safe" questions at your disposal, so that at the rear of you hit the nip in her classification, she keeps gabbing unfashionable. For example, questions about the appearance of belongings she likes, her opinion of the present supporter observe, etc. will keep her well affianced and entertained.
4. Multitask A Trim
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Don't think of talking on call as a compost of time. Significantly, multitask and get low rank gear above as you speak to her. But yeah, sometimes, you may want to administration fair on the conversation itself. Get rationally interested in what she has to say. So sit down, transform sincerely into her state on the former side of the call phone booth and just keep your mind on.
5. Don't Speak Too Much!
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Unendingly sanction her starved more! Why do you think James Link is sexy to women? Given that he is tricks and explosive. So wobble a web of mystery something like your conversational style. Don't TV show every teeny, insignificant promontory about your life. Perhaps you connect diarrhea, but put in the bank that one from being part of the talk!
6. Composure Up Daintily
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Command saying your goodbyes at smallest possible five report earlier the stop. Couch goodbye to a woman on the call is a scheming corporation, as she takes offence if you openly hang up curtly saying, "Gotta go, game's on,"! Let her lessen into the varnish. Try signing off using decent statements about how you enjoyed the conversation and telling her you want to talk to her sharply. If you indeed are in a big be in charge, tell her your laptop is wanting, and your cupboard's self-assured is broken!
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Little Changes Can Make A Big Difference In Your Relationship And Marriage
Before I get into today's lesson, I need to remind you that we're at the end of October, meaning that Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanza, and possibly other traditional gift-giving holidays are approaching, so do yourself a favor and start thinking about gifts for the women in your life now, while you have time to do it right. See this recent article on choosing the perfect gift for a woman for details.
Now for today's lesson!
Check out my buddy Steve here, who has had a revelation that brought him the kind of success that every man wants and can have, if he can read on a fourth-grade level and follow a few simple instructions:
David,
It is amazing how sometimes a slight change in behavior by a man can trigger a much bigger response from a woman. A couple of weeks ago, I found myself wondering why my wife was being distant and seemingly uninterested in any approach I made to be even slightly romantic or sexual. In the past, I would have asked her what was wrong and spiraled into wussitude, making things worse.
Instead, I asked myself first if anything I had been doing could possibly be the problem and the light came on. Even though it might have seemed small or even insignificant, I realized that my approach had become more needy than manly. After giving myself a mental bitch slap, I relaxed and changed my approach to a more playful, I-can-take-it-or-leave-it one and dropped the neediness. The results put a smile on my face every time I think about it.
Last weekend, after a late lunch at one of our favorite restaurants, she asked if we could stop in a shop next door before we went home. I rolled my eyes (grinning all the time) and somewhat sternly said "OK, but make it quick." Inside the shop, while we were walking through an aisle, out of anyone else's view, she grabbed my hand and pulled it against a private part of her anatomy, for just a second.
Needless to say, the tension grew on the ride home and we ended up having a very hot afternoon. Keeping up with the same, over the next couple of days we teased each other back and forth, and after supper last night, she invited me to accompany her upstairs. After feigning a little indifference, I agreed and once again things continued quite nicely. Before turning off the lights last night, and again this morning, she told me how hot the sex was, and she sent me an email at work today saying she misses me. All this has occurred during the week before her "monthly" when normally her desires are somewhat diminished. And, by the way, we have been married for over twenty years.
David, the things you are trying to teach us really do work, and although I had been putting them into practice, I slipped a little. The good thing is that a quick evaluation of the situation and a slight change can make a big difference, and, as you say, it isn't hard, its fun!
Thanks again for sharing your wisdom!
Steve
Steve gets a big "attaboy"! He bought his copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" on September 20, 2005, and he was writing me with advanced questions and success stories within a couple of months of that, and consistently up through March 2006. But then...
He got sidetracked and lost focus a little bit (what few details I have must remain confidential) and temporarily eased back into old habits. BUT! He recognized it, and having learned how to recognize problems and what to do about them, made a quick adjustment to eliminate that old wussitude that had begun creeping back in and BOOM! Right back into the honeymoon! And after over twenty years of marriage!
Incidentally, that's why I repeat some of these newsletters every six months or so and why I recommend to those who buy my book to re-read periodically: so you can make sure that bad programming isn't slipping back in, unusual work stress isn't tearing you down, etc. So if you see one with a title or subject that looks familiar, don't skip it. USE IT to make sure you're still on track, and explore it to see if your new experience brings you something even better than it did last time.
It costs you nothing but five minutes or less per day to keep tabs on your attitude, actions, and marriage. That's a lot less that what fights, hard feelings, affairs, and divorce will end up costing you if you start slipping back into wuss mode and don't realize it, so do yourself a favor and keep reading. If I can spend a half-hour or more per day to put it out there for you, you can spend five minutes or less doing a quick read and self-assessment.
And yes, fixing life and marital problems does involve change. For some of you, BIG change, even RADICAL change, but still not DIFFICULT change; indeed, it's quite easy and enjoyable change, because you're changing from something external forces have programmed you to be back to what you were naturally born to be. All it takes is a release from the programming that is compelling you to do all the wrong things, things that you are in fact not enjoying at all. So embrace this change, revel in it, and celebrate it. Look forward to being better when you wake up every morning, instead of dreading whatever challenges the day might bring.
For some of you it will take a little longer, and for others not as long. It all depends on how much damage has been done to you and how quickly you can accept the simple truth that being a man is fun and easy, political correctness doesn't amount to a hill of beans in your relationship or marriage except to work against it, and that male-female ("intergender") communications are governed by three simple rules that any fourth-grader could understand and follow. In a nutshell, how long it takes and how well it works is entirely a matter of choice, YOUR choice. Are you feeling the power?
The power of choice is a wonderful thing when you feel it. You can be feeling it by the end of this day if you want. Just go to http://www.makingherhappy.com and download your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," and empower yourself to make a few good choices, then watch what happens. I dare you...
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
She Has Fallen In Love
Women are sketched as gold diggers in the quest of a precise breed of men for financial gain. The women are portrayed as vultures wanting impassioned relations for material gain. This refers to bi-lateral trade, investment and mutually beneficial relations. Al thou this does not apply to all women but a different breed of them. They are the one USING these fine men for political, personal and monetary gain. Women who swindle men on-line are often doing it for monetary gain or profit....Mens sexual desire for women can be misused by women for financial gain, reducing men to an animistic height in the operation. And they fail to see their own truth within themselves and constantly see their way of thought in other women around them. They fail to see the inner truth of themselves and often pot ray themselves to be the crystal clean women. Next time anyone accuses you to be a gold digger, do not react and simply forgive them as they are sick themselves and fail to see a doctor to heal their disease... These mercenarys and Queen Bees are definitely not emotional as to them emotions do not rule here.. Its the MIND v/s BODY. (http://www.facebook.com/note.php?created&¬e id=10150182317925312">Increasingly, women are using the Net and online dating websites... Men use women for little other than sexual satisfaction, and women use men almost entirely formonetary or social gain. The guys are just mostly morally bad while the majority the women are black widows - manipulating and using men formonetary and personal gain. I hope that says something more about our society. Take this Article as a warning: there are women out there who use men. Although you almost never hear about it in the conventional media, men should be aware that there is a relevant percentage of women out there who have no ethical conflict whatsoever with the idea of using men for prefers while prompting them with false hopes of intimacy.
Mercenary v/s Queen Bee What differentiates The Mercenary from The Queen Bee, is that there is, no matter how hollow and insignificant it may be, some tangible form of reciprocity given for the treats that she gets. She does get intimate with her victim. Although once a bond has been signed, i.e., marriage, live in relationship or a compromise treaty, the frequency of the intimacy often declines substantially.
The Mercenary varies from The Queen Bee... The QUEEN BEE in that once she has settled on her mark -- a man who will supply her with INTENSIFIED SOCIAL STATUS, UNLIMITED FINANCIAL RESERVES, AND A LIFE OF RECREATION -- SHE WILL THEN GIVE HER BODY TO HIM AS HER PART OF THE DEAL -- BUT NOT HER HEART. SHE MUST, HOWEVER, PERSUADE HER VICTIM THAT SHE HAS FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HIM. THATS A CRITICAL PART OF THE CON. These are the kind of women who consider themselves to be of high status family, yield to bitch and go for the social coffees in five stars in search of new victims, loitering around jewellery stores, discussions on their costly purchases, their evergreen attractiveness, their boyfriends, diamonds and very spiteful, conspiring and conniving just to make their position as the famous breed coming from Royalties of Ancient India. They seldom look within themselves and invariably look at others as worthless and inferior, while they forget they are the ones jeered by all behind their backward. This is the HIGH SOCIETY MADAM QUEEN BEE.
AS THESE QUEEN BEES GET AGED, THEY STILL PREFER TO LIVE IN THEIR PALATIAL ILLUSION SPHERE AS MARILYN MONROE...THE QUEEN BEE, ON THE OTHER HAND, USUALLY HAS A MASS OF SEVERAL VARIED MEN WHO PROVIDE HER WITH GOODS AND SERVICES AND TO WHOM SHE NEVER GIVES MORE THAN A PECK ON THE CHEEK. HER GUY PALS GET TO BE HER BUTLER, BANKER, HER GOD FATHER... SO ON AND ON....THE LIST IS ENDLESS...... BUT NONE OF THEM EVER GET TO HAVE A REAL BOND WITH HER.
This stormy seductress plays dumb and acts as if she has no idea that the diverse guys in her orbit are seduced to her, and are waiting and wishing that she will choose them to be her boyfriend. If shes ever asked about her relationship with one of them, shell say, "Oh, hes a really great friend.", this means: "Hes one of my stooges." The ill thing is that this is all flawlessly fine with Ms. "Me." As far as shes apprehensive, theyre all lucky enough to be spending time with her, and they deserve to pay for the privilege. They give. She takes. Thats the relationship. She keeps em coming back for more by being as warm and sweet as sun-drenched beloved on the outside. However, her heart is as cold as a week old corpse. One could bicker that these guys who follow her bidding like bound servants deserve what they get. "In the game of love, there are no victims, only volunteers."
HER LOOKS FOOL YOU
The problem is that these fellows have allowed themselves to be hypnotized into believing that their investment in time, money and energy is winning them points and helping to build the Queen Bees romantic Interest Level in them. However, the opposite is true. The more wheels these guys jump through, the more the chortles with ridicule for them. Some of them wake up and save themselves from more abuse after only a few months of slavery. Others go on for years in a state of ignorance and denial like living zombies.
The way to deal with this dangerous darling is never to be involved with her to begin with, no matter how beautiful she may be. The male sex drive is straightforward and honest. Men are visual. The hot-blooded sexual comeback to the sight of a good-looking young woman has been hard-wired into the masculine brain gratitude to millions of years of progress -- the average guy can no more stop eyeing, desiring and begging to merge than he can stop eating or sleeping. what about women? Just what do they find attractive about men? Read any typical survey and youll be informed that what really turns them on is a sense of hilarity, reliance, thoughtfulness of others, etc., In other words, according to women, all you have to do is to be a nice guy, and theyll come crawling.
TIME FOR REALITY CHECK
Never listen to what a woman says -- always pay attention to what she practically does preferably. The two are quite frequently worlds apart, because women are geniuses at self-deceit and equally skilled at lying to themselves about their own behavior.
Cross-cultural confirmation from different societies constantly reveals that what women really want from men are profitable supplies. These women would be significantly more willing to enter relationships with the more expensively-attired males regardless of the mans physical appearance.
To a woman, and temptation is simple: The color green is very good-looking. And to this the men magnify their status (implying greater earning power) leading to increased sexual activity.
Thus men were forced to rely on such attraction tactics as driving expensive cars, bragging about performances, and accenting the present or future earning power, while females, on the other hand, packaged themselves with make-up, jewel, hairstyles, and shape-revealing clothing.
Queen Bee... the Wealthy woman who surrounds herself with an entourage of young slaves...She is the Queen of Hearts.
Queen Bee Lyrics by Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristofferson
The black, black widow is sittin in the middle of the web,
its the fly she seeks.
You may be her lover but you never will recover, cause
she aint had a bite for weeks.
You think your the same, cause you got the same name,
but the widow has a mobile home.
Remember what I told you, she got eight arms to hold you,
and shes never gonna let you roam.
Shell tuck into bed and truck on your head, then shell
wrap you as a midnight snack.
So if you see a spider, dont you sidle up beside her
Whyd you think the widows wearin black?
Queen bee, baby
Pray that you may be left on your own, uh huh
Nothin shell give you, gonna outlive you, uh, uh, uh
But the queen bees never gonna be alone. Uh huh.
Long before Atlantis there has been a praying mantis and
you knows why hes on his knees.
He may have religion but hes just a sittin pigeon if a
woman even starts to tease.
He wont even quibble if she has a little nibble on his neck,
what a way to go.
And now you done and torn it! You been messin with a
hornet, shes a blue-blooded wasp, you know.
And just as you do it, shell inject you with a fluid that you
aint even got but none.
Youre the meat on the plate, not even first rate, shes
gonna feed you to her seventh son.
Just like the Queen Bee, baby
Pray that you may be left on your own,
Nothin shell give you, gonna outlive you, uh, uh, uh
But the queen bees never gonna be alone. Uh huh. Uh huh.
So, in conclusion, its an optical illusion, if you think that
were the weaker race.
Men got the muscle, but the ladies got the hustle, and the
truth is staring in your face.
The mother bear stalks, and the queen of the hawks, is the
one who brings home the bread.
The lion that is regal, and the bald headed eagle, need a
woman just to keep them fed.
But come the evenin, were like Adam and his Eve, inside
the garden. Hear the serpents sound?
Its so frustratin, when youre really into matin, and there
aint a lovin man around.
Whoever wrote this story
(its so frustratin, when youre really
into matin, and there aint a lovin man around)
Throw out the glory
(its so frustratin, when youre really
into matin, and there aint a lovin man around)
Bring in the men (give me them and Ill swing)
Write me a sequel
Give me an equal, oh, oh, oh
And Ill give that man
I said Im give that lovin man
I said Im gonna give that lovin man
Im gonna give him that lovin sting! Zap!
