Behindthegrooveson This Day In Music History December 18

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ON THIS DAY IN MUSIC HISTORY: DECEMBER 18, 1961

"The Lion Sleeps Tonight" by The Tokens hits #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 for 3 weeks. Written by Hugo Peretti, Luigi Creatore, Roy Ilene, Albert Stanton, George David Weiss, Paul Campbell, and Solomon Linda, it is the biggest hit for the biggest hit for the Brooklyn, NY based doo wop vocal group.

Originally formed in 1955 while still students at Abraham Lincoln High School in Brooklyn, the group are originally known as The Linc-Tones and featuring Hank Medress, Cynthia Zolotin, Eddie Rabkin, and future solo star Neil Sedaka in their line up. Jay Siegal will replace Rabkin a year later and eventually Sedaka and Zolotin will leave by 1957, the latter being replace by brothers Phil and Mitch Margo. The group will score their first hit earlier in 1961 with "Tonight I Fell In Love" on Warwick Records, before moving to RCA Records. Originally titled "Mbube" (the Zulu word for "lion") by its original composer South African singer Solomon Linda, it is later adapted into "Wimoweh" by The Weavers in 1949 when Linda's song is brought to the attention of Pete Seeger by musicologist and then Decca Records folk music director Alan Lomax. The Weavers version will become a hit when they release their version in 1951. South African singer Miriam Makeba will record her version of "Mbube" in 1960.

The Tokens' producers Hugo & Luigi will hear the song, which by now has become a folk music standard, will have the group record the song as the B-side of their first single "Tina". Initially embarrassed by their rendition, the group are against the song being released as a single, until DJ Dick Smith at WORC in Worchester, MA begins giving it heavy airplay on his show. From there, the record will take off nationally.

Entering the Hot 100 at #70 on November 13, 1961, it will rocket to the top of chart five weeks later. "Lion" will be covered by numerous artists over the years including a version by Robert John who will take his version to #3 on the Hot 100 in March of 1972 and by British pop band Tight Fit who will take it to #1 on the UK singles chart in 1982. The song will also be heard in the Disney classic "The Lion King" in 1994. Thanks to its exposure in the blockbuster film, The Tokens' original 1961 recording will be reissued and rechart, peaking at #51 on the Hot 100 in September of '94. "The Lion Sleeps Tonight" is certified Gold in the US by the RIAA

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Making An Acquaintance And Building Relationships Via Online Dating

OVERVIEW

In America online dating sites have become very popular, many Americans also successfully use mobile dating applications. So more than a half of such daters have already a date with a person they got acquainted via a dating site or online app, and one fifth part of them got married thanks to such sites and now happily live with their beloved spouse or long term partner. Thus people in this country have changed their attitude to online dating, it's growing more positive lately, however there are still many of those who refer negatively to this way of making an acquaintance due to their previous not quite good experiences.

There was made a national survey on dating and relationships among Americans. It was the first thorough study of the topic done by Pew Research Center's Internet Project for 8 years. Here some figures on the survey:11% of internet users (that is equal to 9% of all American adult population) state that they have tried an online dating web sites. It is a remarkable grow of this service usage as no long as in 2008, only 3% of adults in America used online dating web sites. 7% of mobile phone app users (that is equal to 3% of all American adult population) state they have a dating app on their mobile phone. According to the results of the survey, 11% of all adults in America belong to "online daters", in other words they have tried a dating site or mobile dating application. To be more exact, this service is especially widespread in the circles of college-educated and among young people in their mid-20's to mid-40's, and 38% of the participants who are at the moment have no a spouse or a friend and are in active search of a partner have administered online dating from time to time as one more way to solve their task.SOME DETAILS ON THE SURVEYThe data provided by the report are based on the results of a survey on the the Internet usage by Americans. The finding were received from telephone interviews. The interviews were conducted by such an institution as Princeton Survey Research Associates International this year during the period from April 17 to May 19. Almost 2,252 adults aging 18 or older took part in the poll. The participants of the inquiry were interviewed in English and Spanish via land phoneline (1,125) and mobile phone (1,127, among whom 571 those without a landline phone). As for the findings of the survey in whole, percentage of errors that may take place during the poll constitute about plus or minus 2.3%. Talking on the results of the poll among Internet users (n=1,895), sampling errors are equal to plus or minus 2.5%.

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Violence Against Women My Take

I had mentioned that lack of parental support led to the death of a certain Mrs. Rao in my first post written for women's web regarding violence against women. True in most cases women are neither equipped nor encouraged to stand up for themselves against unacceptable behavior from their men folk/in laws or anyone who violates their right to dignity and self respect. But there are a few exceptions and this post is dedicated to those women who were victims of domestic violence but found means to survive against all odds. In two of the three cases mentioned they had the support of their parents and the main purpose of this post is to reflect on the possible role that parents and family could play in helping the victimized women to deal with violence against them. Priti (name changed) was just twenty years old when she was married off with a lot of fanfare. She was the first born to her parents who wanted the very best for her. Theirs was a business community and girls were rarely encouraged to study. But her father was proud of his daughter's academic excellence and he encouraged her to study. She passed her undergrad course in Philosophy Honors with a high 1st division and married a man of her parent's choice soon afterwards. The groom was a charming good looking young man with a promising future. At least that was what they thought. Unfortunately their assessment was wrong. Their son in law had a weakness for women and squandered his hard earned money on them. He was neck deep in debt. His parents blamed her for being unable to control his philandering habits and ridiculed her for her less than ordinary looks. According to them she had to be grateful to him for fathering her child - a daughter on top of it. Another man would not have given her a second glance and would have thrown her out for bearing him a daughter. She was totally at their mercy for spending money. Priti's parents then decided that it was time for them to pitch in. They encouraged her to pursue her studies and she went on to do her Masters. They financed her education and took care of her personal expenses too. Her in laws could only laugh behind her back and taunt her for not being worthy of the husband's affection. She also answered the National Eligibility Test for lectureship and passed the difficult exam in a single attempt. She had a second issue - a son this time - but her husband did not mend his ways. She then joined as lecturer in a town about 100 kilometers from her husband's place and moved out for good. By now her husband had married a divorcee and stopped coming home altogether. She has not yet divorced him but has severed all contacts with him and his family. Her parent's continue to support her morally if not financially. Recently she booked a 2 bed room flat for herself and enrolled her children in reputed local schools. Her husband's second wife, a bank employee with an independent income is facing the same problem as her and keeps seeking her advice on how she ought to deal with the situation. I think it was very nice and thoughtful of her parents to encourage her to have an independent income and a social standing for herself. They could have offered her a home and shelter but that would not have given her the confidence to face the future. Lakshmi (not her real name)was a house maid and put up with her short tempered mistress only for the sake of the out house that they allowed her to occupy in lieu of a salary. She took a occasional slap in her stride and did not give a second thought to the abusive language and swear words directed at her. Her husband who was a construction worker often suggested that they move out rather than tolerate the inhuman behavior of their master and mistress. Lakshmi would ask him to be patient since it was not possible to rent a house with unlimited supply of electricity and water on his salary. It was around 12 in the afternoon when Lakshmi had finished sweeping and was swabbing the drawing room when her mistress called out to her. She wanted her to fetch something from the fridge and Lakshmi took some time to respond since she had to wash her hand and wipe it clean before opening the fridge. Without a second thought the mistress took out the burning hot iron ladle used for seasoning and shoved it into her stomach and pulled it across the back leaving the skin scalded and burnt. It was then that Lakshmi thought that enough was enough. She went into the store room picked up the broom and began hitting her mistress with it treating her to the very swear words that were hurled at her on several earlier occasions. She pulled the mistress by the hair and dragged her to the court yard calling out to neighbors and threatening to call the cops. Neighbors intervened, the mistress almost fell at her feet and the master, who had come home for lunch, pleaded that his wife be spared. Lakshmi left her job at their place and moved to another area of our town. She was not keen on going to the police because she was sure that they would harass her and spare her mistress. The third case is about Rashmi (name changed) who was a bright student trapped in an unhappy marriage. Her husband was short fused and her mother in law did everything possible to set him against her. She would be regularly beaten up for no reason and her mother in law would tell neighbors who intervened that Rashmi deserved to be beaten since she back answered him. Dowry menace also could not be ruled out but it was done in a very covert manner so nothing could be proved. It was then that Rashmi's father registered her name for service in his company against the ward's quota he was entitled to. He told her that the 8 hors that she would spend at the office and the time spent in commuting to work would be a welcome relief from the stifling environment at home. And of course, the money that came in and the quarter and medical facility that the company offered would be added benefits. He could have given his service to his son but he felt that she needed it more. Rashmi was lucky that she got a call within a month and got the job of an office assistant soon afterwards. Her husband deliberately opted for a transfer to Madhya Pradesh but she refused to accompany him citing her job as the reason. She was not going to give it up at any cost. If her in laws had a problem with her job she would apply for a quarter and move out with her children. Her husband realized that she meant what she said and let her continue. He has however moved out and her mother in law blames her for it. According to her, he was 'fed up' with her superior airs and no husband could bear to live with a wife whom he could not 'control'. Rashmi does not bother. She does her share of house work, gets the children ready for school and leaves home by 8 in the morning. She is not worried about the physical strain. She is happy to have a life of her own - a world where she can meet like minded people and establish an identity for herself. Her husband continues to make life hell for her when he visits them but she counters his behavior by ignoring his outbursts and that annoys him more. For all the stories of bride burning and cruelty to women, we do have a few that would inspire women who are victimized and encourage families to support their daughter/sister intead of treating her as alien property. A change in the mind set would go a long way in curtailing violence against women.

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If You Are Money Mad You Have At Least One Of The Five Deadly Fears

Recurrent like finances. Recurrent iron love it. Excluding, some see it as harm. It is this thinking that gets people into trouble, for they avoid it like the gobble and see fill with who maintain a lot of it as wickedness, coming up with phrases like "Ability doesn't grow on trees, Border your finances for a squally day," and of issue "Ability is the origin of all wickedness." A mindset of scarcity is drop to one of amount and has lead to the end of a number of. But this is not the be there of this article. The amount / scarcity issue is an article in itself. I make this detail to show the reader that the issue is not that people who like or love finances register they are bad.

Finally, contemporary is nought innately wickedness about finances, and it is effective not the origin of all wickedness. Excluding, contemporary are fill with who grip on it so a long way away that it twists their atmosphere to set finances a rank over that of being reasonable or just. Standardized even though contemporary are people like this, this is an extreme. Even now, iron if you are reasonable and just, heroic be there on finances can be troublesome. Let me wander for a support to help you better understand the best point of this article.

Tending System the Earth:

In nature, we see data of how, to a great degree, fear rules the the human race. Put forward are second-rate and greater birds but peak are hunter and prey. Bait prey upon worms and insects. Birds prey upon fish. Birds are preyed upon by higher life forms and so on all the way up to man. But iron man can become prey to not only animals--if having difficulties defenseless--but to outlying men, and iron to scourge and hunger (commonly shared killers that go occur in occur).

Separation back to his early period, man has contended with man out of fear, the stronger groups prime by violent first. But why attack? A substantial what if why countries that can prey on outlying countries is that they effective maintain the power, the one-upmanship to, of issue, gain materially and politically, but at the underneath of all suppression is whatever thing greater: fear.

For example, so the turn of the 20th century, America has manipulated and self-controlled countries near the world for acquire and gain. From Teddy Roosevelt (aiding Panama's detachment from Colombia to build the Suez Channel) to Woodrow Wilson in Latin America, all the way to Ronald Regan and the Clean in the Be thinking about East, extraordinary rules has been geared just before fiscal gain added than at all extremely. Several Secretaries of weight (Henry Kissinger being one) that they didn't care what happened in outlying countries as long as it didn't change the U.S. economically. Countries maintain effective gotten rich off of the colonizing and usurping distinct country's harvest, but why? In the manner of is copiousness, enough? Scene the later.

In the manner of partial the world's population makes 3 a day or less, in the manner of one is renting a car and address is operate better than 90% of the world, in the manner of the U.S. makes up 6% of the world's population but harbors added than 50% of its privileged circumstances, one may question our ulterior end. Why is it that iron even though peak in the U.S. live with greater comfort and safety than peak in the world--by a huge margin--do we continue to hunger added and more? In the function of our national end is joined into our sure motive--to a great degree it stems from the fear of lack. Tending.

But finally the achieve occurs that one can never get copiousness of what one doesn't basically need. Ask the thousands who maintain "made it" and at the peak of success create total fruitlessness.

So what is next?

Organize in mind that I am not criticizing political policy; this is not a political paper. I present these points to not only play up our reservations but that they run physically powerful.

But what are these physically powerful seated fears?

The Five Fears:

They are fear of weakness, demise, hunger, old age, and iron insult.

Regarding our national rules of heroic need, it is finely a nothing special issue of our peak muscular, sure reservations.

Fickle back to the sure so you the reader may better interconnect, a number of individuals--outside of any national agenda--attempt to use finances to still the advanced reservations. Let me interconnect a couple vignettes to support.

A very rich man sat former his doctor who has just told him that he has incorrigible swelling.

"But doctor," the man supposed, "I'm a very rich man. Name the cure. I'll pay you anything you want!"

The doctor, of issue, told him finances would not help him.

Put forward is distinct story in which a doctor of medicine contracts swelling and states: "I can't get swelling. I'm a vibrant person with a lot to achieve."

Whether a doctor or indefatigable confronting an at the forefront slapdash, in peak personal belongings people exterior their truths tenderly when of a life unexamined. These people never so address their loss or the reality of demise, iron the direction of demise at an at the forefront age. A catastrophic listen in on. If one does not assume realities and cavort them in embellish, that person is cap for great un-fulfillment and an pending life.

The Unexamined Cosmos is Deadly:

Socrates mock of the unexamined life and boldly stated that it is rigorously not assets employment... at all.

But why such conviction? Scene that you may make gains in the material, fiscal, and social rankings but your influential lack of personal and spiritual growth will be peak detectable then in life: deathbed sorrow. For it is inside that the map out of a life lived well or not is examined. At one's demise, few hunger greater material gain, added finances, or greater social status. The greatest concerns are "Believe I loved well," and "Believe I been loved." This point can be born out by the fact that peak chance on added about or discriminate the names of Christ, Martin Luther Emperor, Gandhi, and Close relative Teresa than Rockefeller, Carnegie, Mellon and Vanderbilt. The former group being fill with who spoken continue love: love of mankind over and advanced self love.

Excluding, the poor argue of an unexamined life can come former one's slapdash. Into are a couple of examples from an article by psychoanalyst, Robert Gerzon losing under "Cremation" at his web site Gerson dot com.

"I see so a number of touching examples of the effect of an unexamined life. I celebrate Melissa, a sensitive, attractive woman in her late forties who realized that a be in charge of boring, doomed-from-the-beginning relationships had used up so a number of years of her life that it was now too late for her to recognize her conceive of of a husband, home and family of her own. I recall Donald, a hue, hard-working man who overlooked his group and family for too a number of years and create himself depressed and employment as an individual in an address by the time he came to see me."

Put forward is nought added touching than employment a life unexamined, but employment a life examined deficiently, or not learning from one's mistakes is close to being as ghastly in its implications. Notably though can compensate for time off beam straight such snippets.

Ability Madness:

Ability Roughness, the hunger to arrive at privileged circumstances, particularly in a constant, crucial caste of time, is the conceive of of the meticulously bashful. A lack of buttress of "sleeping reservations" will fray people to realize privileged circumstances in any way viable, privileged circumstances that they believe--either meaningfully or subconsciously-- will still all reservations of weakness, hunger, injury, demise, iron insult.

Reproof may stand out as less earn, but don't we all hunger to be looked up to and admired? It is a usual fault and its lack creates fear for a number of. Scene that the number one fear peak maintain is speaking in public--to do so requires huge strength and self-examination. But this inability is very detectable if you chance on what to look for.

I chance on of a number of men who tell me great stories of their practice, deeds, and gain. And some move the set down, enjoying their professed wit and humor at the payment of all who squabble with their self-analysis.

Intriguingly copiousness, few women do this. My confide in is that they do so out of a greater understanding and mugginess to the help of life: to connect, support, education, and arrive at inherited success, and to fiercely comfort and support all they come in contact with.

Of issue, men are mostly joined in added fixed to the need for fiscal success, at that time, added actual to fear its lack. This can be born out straight statistics sinking added men ambassador suicide when of job injury than women.

The Root Line:

But source line, if we are first not living of these reservations, and interminably keep them disregarded at our back, we are dossier just before an last end. For if we do not cavort our reservations and address them, work on them, consequently in the manner of weakness occurs, vacation arrives, criticisms build, and old age and effective demise roll up, everyplace will you be?

Phantom the fear spend you at these moments? Moments that will effective come for all in some unification. Or will you stand strong, at the get hard, silence in occur and understanding afoot. Or will the unsightliness and extent of hurl abuse of the need-to-be-examined struggle you kicking and raw into the viscera of despair?

Behind schedule all, it is rigorously a matter of long for. But a long for to do so now may be the peak notable long for you've ever made in your life. For you, your family, friends, and all the hundreds, thousands, millions you can touch with your joy of a life examined and fighting fit realized.

Armistice to you and yours.

Jeff is a Self-Realization expert and can be create at SelfGrowth.com. He has on paper 100's of essays and articles; over 50 poems; and definite books: At Amazon.com, you can find Black Man Radiation and the Ultraviolet Failure, a untried to ardor young adults and the young at atmosphere. For added pressure, get his range of poems, To Die at the Age of Man at Lulu dot com. Imminent soon: Be the cause of and Come into being Yourself Full (July, 2008); Lessons is a Take advantage of of Direct, (late 2008); and a subordinate novella The Rake over for Adriana (late 2008). At present, he teaches writing and owns Intermediate Jut out over, a self-improvement industrial.

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An Overview Of Nlp Coaching

NLP coaching allows individuals to deal with a number of different illnesses by changing the way they think. With assistance from a good coach, men and women can begin to make progress with depression, allergies, and other problems. With dedication, they will be able to become healthier in both mind and body. Good instructors are essential to the process and should always be procured.

In the NLP framework, language, behavior, and neurological processes are closely related. As long as individuals can begin to develop a balance between these concepts, they should be able to make better progress. Professionals will be able to teach students how to look inside themselves and examine their own behavior so that progress can be made in the days and weeks ahead.

The process can help with a number of ailments. Men and women who have been suffering with depression, for example, will need assistance as soon as possible. Moderate depression can prevent people from going to work and meeting new people. By turning back the black cloud that has gathered around their soul, they can begin to feel better.

Much like depression, anxiety can also cause problems. Individuals who have begun to experience panic attacks may find that they can no longer deal effectively with life. By learning how the neurological processes are related to behavior, students can make changes in their lives. Thus, depression and anxiety can be ameliorated. Individuals who are able to eliminate mental problems will likely go on to great success in life.

The technique is also thought to be useful with allergies. If people get stuffy noses and sore throats whenever the pollen kicks up, they can gently train their minds to overcome this malady. With a bit of dedication to the task at hand, the should begin to feel better. They will no longer have to fear breezy days during the height of spring.

The method might also help some people overcome the common cold. In fact, while the cold often affects people during the colder months, most individuals can suffer with the symptoms for many days. NLP techniques will allow men and women to better handle their conditions. This may even allow them to get out and about during the coming days.

When individuals are planning to take classes in the method, they should try to find a teacher who has a track record of success. This will allow them to overcome their problems quickly and efficiently. If individuals are looking for someone who is trained in the target techniques, they can consult with medical experts and ask for advice.

In the end, NLP coaching allows suffering men and women to get back on the path to good health. Some people might be having problems with anxiety and depression. Others might be having issues with allergies and the common cold. By learning how the body works, they can ward off illness and begin feeling great. The key, of course, is to find an instructor who has been able to help others in the past.

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Rapport Vs Compliance How To Get A Completely Compliant Prospect

There is a lot of talk in the persuasion and NLP community about rapport and how to gain it. Yes, it is absolutely true what they say that "With rapport anything is possible and without it nothing is possible." Plenty of trainers have dedicated a LOT of seminar time to rapport building exercises like mirroring and matching. That said, I want to go up a level and talk about what we are really wanting to achieve in persuasion and that is compliance. Face it, if you are in a persuasion setting and have an outcome for someone, what you want them to be is COMPLIANT to your outcome. If you don't agree with that then LEAVE THIS PAGE NOW because it's a simple fact that a lot of "white lighters" would rather not face. It is possible to have compliance without rapport and many have achieved that by threats, guilt, shame, guns to heads, and other less-than-positive behaviors but there are a more pleasant ways to gain compliance. Ways to create compliance: * Assume authority By presenting yourself as the authority in what you know and what you are doing people will tend to treat you accordingly. * Ask for compliance Bet you didn't think of that. Yes, you can do that by simply asking somehow. Example: "I'd like to ask you to simply follow along here and give my your whole attention. No doubt a lot of people might have something else on their minds, so, for while I'm here would you be willing to put those things aside for the next 5 minutes?" * Build compliance This is a old sales trick. The salesperson asks the prospect to sit in a different chair than the prospect is sitting in or use one pen instead of another. The salesperson then acknowledges the prospect each time he complies. One famous lecturer would frame success in his training as requiring a need for 'discipline' and, under that pretense, ask the audience to discipline themselves to stand up from their chair, turn around and sit down every time he snapped his fingers. After snapping he fingers every ten minutes during his 2 hour presentation he built a very compliant audience. In the area of successful dating for men someone came up with the concept of the "mini-date" where the man would expose his date to several different environments in one date. This could include meeting at a coffee shop then going to a costume store to try on costumes and followed by a walk through an antique store or some unique part of town. All very cheap and creates an experience where the woman yields to the experience that the man creates, subtly creating compliance. (I'd love to hear of any womans use of this technique.) Now the same can also be applied in order to build rapport. * Assume rapport Present yourself as already being in rapport with your prospect. * Ask for rapport Not difficult. It could sound something like this "Bob, I'm going to assume that I can feel comfortable talking with you today, like we're old friends talking business. For while we're here would you be willing to work from that same assumption?" * Build rapport Learn rapport skills and USE THEM! Now the difference between rapport and compliance is that, as a general rule, rapport is designed to effect the unconscious behaviors and compliance directs the conscious behaviors. There have been some very effective persuaders and therapists who have relied solely on compliance, even to the point of breaking rapport, and still gotten good results. My advice USE EVERYTHING to get your outcome. What internal quality does it take to build strong compliance? The best quality is a fearless belief that what you are doing. Or, as they explained in the movie "Glengarry Glen Ross", a set of brass balls. Good luck. JK Ellis PS There are a lot of very sneaky covert ways to get compliance with people. To find out more go to http://www.MindControl101.com/black-ops-hypnosis.html

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