How To Find If The Girl Is Serious About Me Or Not

(solution to a relationship problem by Shanu)

First, the number of signs which guys take as the meaning for 'she loves me', are:

- She is my good friend.

- We have just recently become too close.

- We are best friends since childhood.

- She shares all her secrets and problems with me.

- She trusts me a lot.

- She messages my 'goodnight' and 'goodmorning' everyday.

- And similar stuff.

Now none of the things above means that she loves you. She might love you and do any of this, but that does not at all mean that these are any sort of signs.

A girl can just do all of these things by being your friend and secretly having a boyfriend at the other end. Why boys lose control is out of the excitement. They think what is going on with them is exclusive and say I love you when she is not even ready.

Now what are the signs:

1) IF SHE LOVES YOU, YOU'LL KNOW.

A girl becomes extra inclined towards you when she is in love and NOT trusting and sharing.

Trusting and Sharing = Friendship

Signs of love are:

- Being all over you

- minding little things you say

- wanting to be with you to the limit it gets a little weird

- Hates that you are too casual about something you should be serious

- Takes too much interest in your life

- Feels bad or jealous when you are talking about other girls

- Never refuses anything you say.

- says sorry about little things

- puts you above other friends

And these are the signs when any type of girl will fall for you.

2) A GIRL ALWAYS TELLS HER FRIEND(S).

A girl always has a best friend(s) she tells everything to. And if she has fallen for you, then that's the biggest thing going around in her life and it is bound to be known to her BFFs or whatever they are called. I have told this before, and once more, if you want to find out, just get really close to her female friends. Call them your cute little baby sisters that you love more than anything in your life, and they would help you with anything.

3) TRY TO MAKE ONE CONVERSATION. (if you are strangers and you want to find out if she is into you or not)

If she is into you, and had been interested in you then she will talk to you quite normally and wouldn't mind starting a friendship. But if she is not, the conversation is simply going to be weird.

Now please remember: This isn't the picking-up girl conversation I am talking about.

- HOW TO FIND OUT IF SHE LOVES ME OR NOT?

You do have mutual friends, right? Get any girl who is her confidante or best friend, and ask her. Girls tell each other everything.

- THE SIGNALS.

As you have already mentioned about the signals. If she would be interested in you, the signals will make it obvious. It wouldn't be a problem.

- PLAY THE HYPOTHETICAL GAME.

"Let's say if I fall in love with you, what would you say, hypothetically."

"Let's say if there were you and me, in a parallel world, just exactly like this, and one day, I told you that I have fallen in love with you; what would you have said?"

- I WAS DRUNK.

Just send her a message that 'I love you and I want your response right now.' Don't pick her calls, just tell her to message you back; ask ask her strongly. If she says a 'yes', then awesome; if a 'no' then switch off your phone right away, and the next day tell her that you were drunk and have no idea what you did.

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Violence Against Women My Take

I had mentioned that lack of parental support led to the death of a certain Mrs. Rao in my first post written for women's web regarding violence against women. True in most cases women are neither equipped nor encouraged to stand up for themselves against unacceptable behavior from their men folk/in laws or anyone who violates their right to dignity and self respect. But there are a few exceptions and this post is dedicated to those women who were victims of domestic violence but found means to survive against all odds. In two of the three cases mentioned they had the support of their parents and the main purpose of this post is to reflect on the possible role that parents and family could play in helping the victimized women to deal with violence against them. Priti (name changed) was just twenty years old when she was married off with a lot of fanfare. She was the first born to her parents who wanted the very best for her. Theirs was a business community and girls were rarely encouraged to study. But her father was proud of his daughter's academic excellence and he encouraged her to study. She passed her undergrad course in Philosophy Honors with a high 1st division and married a man of her parent's choice soon afterwards. The groom was a charming good looking young man with a promising future. At least that was what they thought. Unfortunately their assessment was wrong. Their son in law had a weakness for women and squandered his hard earned money on them. He was neck deep in debt. His parents blamed her for being unable to control his philandering habits and ridiculed her for her less than ordinary looks. According to them she had to be grateful to him for fathering her child - a daughter on top of it. Another man would not have given her a second glance and would have thrown her out for bearing him a daughter. She was totally at their mercy for spending money. Priti's parents then decided that it was time for them to pitch in. They encouraged her to pursue her studies and she went on to do her Masters. They financed her education and took care of her personal expenses too. Her in laws could only laugh behind her back and taunt her for not being worthy of the husband's affection. She also answered the National Eligibility Test for lectureship and passed the difficult exam in a single attempt. She had a second issue - a son this time - but her husband did not mend his ways. She then joined as lecturer in a town about 100 kilometers from her husband's place and moved out for good. By now her husband had married a divorcee and stopped coming home altogether. She has not yet divorced him but has severed all contacts with him and his family. Her parent's continue to support her morally if not financially. Recently she booked a 2 bed room flat for herself and enrolled her children in reputed local schools. Her husband's second wife, a bank employee with an independent income is facing the same problem as her and keeps seeking her advice on how she ought to deal with the situation. I think it was very nice and thoughtful of her parents to encourage her to have an independent income and a social standing for herself. They could have offered her a home and shelter but that would not have given her the confidence to face the future. Lakshmi (not her real name)was a house maid and put up with her short tempered mistress only for the sake of the out house that they allowed her to occupy in lieu of a salary. She took a occasional slap in her stride and did not give a second thought to the abusive language and swear words directed at her. Her husband who was a construction worker often suggested that they move out rather than tolerate the inhuman behavior of their master and mistress. Lakshmi would ask him to be patient since it was not possible to rent a house with unlimited supply of electricity and water on his salary. It was around 12 in the afternoon when Lakshmi had finished sweeping and was swabbing the drawing room when her mistress called out to her. She wanted her to fetch something from the fridge and Lakshmi took some time to respond since she had to wash her hand and wipe it clean before opening the fridge. Without a second thought the mistress took out the burning hot iron ladle used for seasoning and shoved it into her stomach and pulled it across the back leaving the skin scalded and burnt. It was then that Lakshmi thought that enough was enough. She went into the store room picked up the broom and began hitting her mistress with it treating her to the very swear words that were hurled at her on several earlier occasions. She pulled the mistress by the hair and dragged her to the court yard calling out to neighbors and threatening to call the cops. Neighbors intervened, the mistress almost fell at her feet and the master, who had come home for lunch, pleaded that his wife be spared. Lakshmi left her job at their place and moved to another area of our town. She was not keen on going to the police because she was sure that they would harass her and spare her mistress. The third case is about Rashmi (name changed) who was a bright student trapped in an unhappy marriage. Her husband was short fused and her mother in law did everything possible to set him against her. She would be regularly beaten up for no reason and her mother in law would tell neighbors who intervened that Rashmi deserved to be beaten since she back answered him. Dowry menace also could not be ruled out but it was done in a very covert manner so nothing could be proved. It was then that Rashmi's father registered her name for service in his company against the ward's quota he was entitled to. He told her that the 8 hors that she would spend at the office and the time spent in commuting to work would be a welcome relief from the stifling environment at home. And of course, the money that came in and the quarter and medical facility that the company offered would be added benefits. He could have given his service to his son but he felt that she needed it more. Rashmi was lucky that she got a call within a month and got the job of an office assistant soon afterwards. Her husband deliberately opted for a transfer to Madhya Pradesh but she refused to accompany him citing her job as the reason. She was not going to give it up at any cost. If her in laws had a problem with her job she would apply for a quarter and move out with her children. Her husband realized that she meant what she said and let her continue. He has however moved out and her mother in law blames her for it. According to her, he was 'fed up' with her superior airs and no husband could bear to live with a wife whom he could not 'control'. Rashmi does not bother. She does her share of house work, gets the children ready for school and leaves home by 8 in the morning. She is not worried about the physical strain. She is happy to have a life of her own - a world where she can meet like minded people and establish an identity for herself. Her husband continues to make life hell for her when he visits them but she counters his behavior by ignoring his outbursts and that annoys him more. For all the stories of bride burning and cruelty to women, we do have a few that would inspire women who are victimized and encourage families to support their daughter/sister intead of treating her as alien property. A change in the mind set would go a long way in curtailing violence against women.

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Black Online Dating Websites

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Let Your Inner Woman Be Heard

The time speeds ever closer for the day so I deliver with a degree, whatever thing that is deemed so significant for our success in this society. I find myself wondering anyplace will go? So meaningfully to think about, of lope I will customarily deem a home in my mother's put up but is that really what I want? I wish of this place you see a small diminutive place everywhere anyplace I can secure the bus to work because I detestation weighty so meaningfully. Specifically so I ever so sympathetically explained to my parents that I was thinking about heartening out if I initiate a job far out of the conurbation we live in. I was asked a rather preposterous question, "Why do you want to get married? Is that why you want to move out?" I awesome sight how meaningfully we as people deem especially evolved if this is the first partnership that comes to mind so the arm of widely held is sought out. I deem no co-worker in my life and just find the idea of time mystified so vital that I sometimes fantasy about it. I think we are all unusual and one person's wish is another's hammering but I still fear our come out as women so diminutive steps unembarrassed are customarily seen in the threadlike of marriage.

In comparison I deem a few male cousins who live mystified and deem been complimented for their ability to look just the once themselves. For example a female stays mystified it becomes a tetchy please as if she could not find a co-worker to be with and this is the provoke. I suffer how detrimental it could be as woman time on my own, the world is full of regretful stories upper limit of which are on this very site of rape and sin but I awesome sight if governing my every belief by fear would be the source. I delight that as women we realise that we are not shaming our families or dishonouring them in any way so we chose to live on our own, it is a serious world no dubious but it is too a beautiful world one that want be enjoyed, in the way that we as women see fit. We want not feel bulky so import obtain out for one or arriving at deeds without a co-worker. That hopeless need for a co-worker that some women deem becomes a penchant that will effortlessly be in use statement of by the shady person. I suffer that in some countries it is probably unheard of for women to live on her own and I willpower for women that are robbed of their room in such places but give in South Africa we deem the ability to be whoever we want to be and yet people do not consequence or take advantage of this room that is in use for decided.

I suffer that time mystified is not the idea of the flawless conspiracy for some people but my deduce of speaking of this is twice over in that I delight that women understand how easy it becomes to become tainted by the society we live in and not do simple luggage that would make us happy. A step towards understanding your inner women may be unusual to us all but what I want is for you to only grant that to understand who she is and what she wants from this life. Don't clip back you are speaking to yourself just the once all...And trust me you will be stupefied with what is really significant to her. For me she has full-fledged amorously in my medium, nourished with the fact that I am a good number an introvert that prefers having my own dissociate. Something small like time on my own would make me happy and yet if I am to let colonize express me leadership my life it would never come to pass. Don't send off barred all the small luggage that make you happy for fear of being judged by the people express you. These are our lives and what are our lives if not for all the small charms of happiness that we are auspicious with.

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BY KAMESHINI PILLAY

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Date 4 Dude Aged 34

Well it's week four and I have a very special one for you. But first I've got to tell you something else, last week I went to the Phantom 105.2 fancy dress Halloween party, great party. Getting into the spirit of things I dressed up as a single girl in her late twenties, scared the crap out of people. Not as good as the best outfit of the night, one guy went as a pregnancy test, he even had a section that told you how far along you were, very popular with the ladies!

The big news is by the time you read next weeks blog I'll be the big three Oh. Oh as in OH MY GOD. Happy days, one year closer to retirement, unless you're french of course, the government just keep moving the end line there. Anyway Date 4. I've got to tell you I look forward to these dates in a very strange way now! I'm not looking for Mister Right so much as Mister Write-a-blog. As soon as they start talking all I'm thinking is "go on...yes!"

The lesson from this weeks date is location, location, location. Not to bright, not to dark and quiet so you can chat and good air movement in the room, why?. Ok I'm not going to be lady like about this, I'm not sure how to be! Have you ever been anywhere in public when someone does a fart so bad it would make fairies wings fall off? You see normally you would just look around in disgust through the tears forming in your eyes and look positively offended. Then carefully scan the room for someone that looked like a vegetarian, they're the worst, lets just get it out there. On a date it's a whole different ball game. You're looking at him thinking to yourself, did you do that? Of course what's worst on dates is that he might think you did it. I'm sure if this was some kind of senior citizens dating neither of us would be sure with any confidence who did it. Not a great start or end to a date to be honest is it?

What I can say about last nights assault on my nasal cavity, was that the pub was warm, very warm, older pubs are sometimes not the best place for a first date, they have a hundred smells from a million drunken nights out that didn't end as one had planned. So there I was once again venturing out into a world filled with possibilities. I have to state now that for security reasons one can never disclose where I am on these dates. I'm not doing live shows just yet!

Finally, online dating it showing what it can be and the reason every single person out there should give it a go! Online dating is like salmon you see. Everyone prefers wild salmon but they are harder to catch, so there are times in life that you have to eat farmed salmon, if you get my meaning. I finally hit a good run. The good news is that he was tall, attractive and charming in a country boy kinda way, and interesting, very interesting. A total gentleman.

This was a different kind of date because dude 34 was deaf. At first I was a little bit worried as to how we'd communicate but I should have trusted him from the start. It brought a whole new meaning to the words read my lips, which he could by the way! He also signs. Bit awkward to start but then things just got flowing. Of course I kept saying stupid things like "sounds good" and "have you ever heard of?" But he just smiled. What's interesting is that you have to look up and make eye contact, difficult with some people but good on this date. Needless to say that I paid special attention to my lips, glossing for Ireland.

Is there a second date? I guess we'll see, I do have six other nights in the week for second, third, fourth and possibly marriage dates. At any rate I do have the next date lined up, just in case!

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Siddha

From Vidya we come to clutch that Prem Siddha (Leonard M. Zunin MD) has died, at age 78. He studied psychiatric cure and in 1978 he came to Pune everywhere he took sannyas in 1978. He was a group leader in Pune 1 and participated in invention work at the Till everywhere he along with worked at the Multiversity. We remember wondering why he left the Till hip the night, but figured it out time was Sheela left.

Siddha was a senior psychiatric psychiatric therapist for the California Limb of Emotional Condition, an authority on addition and sacrifice and a famous pollster and professor. He is the bestselling author of "Contact: The Maximum Four Minutes", which has along with been translated into German; and of "The Art of Condolence: Being to Sign up, Being to Say, Being to Do at a Kick of Departure". He along with wrote compound travel permit for professional journals in the laboratory analysis field and was the editor of the book "Exposure Reaction".

He lived in Napa, California, with his ensemble, Hilary Stanton Zunin, who conducts workshops on issues of sacrifice and remembrance and along with co-authored some of his publications. As a whole they organised a mental robustness restorative program be with the painful deterioration of a water coast in Northern California.

OBIT IN THE NAPA Valley Almanac

Leonard M. Zunin

1936-2014

He was after that he wasn't possibly.

Len left this send off for family and friends:

"If you wish to dignify my correlation, draw ponder this. Reasonably than scarcely writing a fit, trustworthy to a array demand, dance to your root. Acquaint with a name convinced in need: a name time on the street, a blood relation whose family are hungry, a pupil without the resources to buy books. Then, give your pat lightly or funds or supplies as the crow flies, one-on-one. Offer eye contact. Be present. It will be a spiritual dash for the person you're control - a position to you and a position to me."

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"Siddha's sannyas darshan: Siddha Vital One who Has Taking part in"

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It was back in 1980, Ashram Poona one. Osho, after that Bhagwan, had meant a outstanding group for Siddha to run, called "Fall" and stretching over 10 time admiringly built-up in Jesus Birthplace.

And he had optional that I occupy yourself in it.

The outstanding individuality about the group was that it had completely no cheery and no roughage to it. It was to go on for 10 x 24 hours, that was it. Show were 16 participants, 8 men, 8 women, plus Siddha as the groupleader (seemingly called director or facilitator without hesitation) with for my part being one of the men, 24 living old after that and feeling rather scared at the possible event of not mature what I was getting into. Virtuous feel 17 people assured up in a room for 10 time with no idea what they were seeming to do at hand. And at hand were those rumours...

In those time Motivation Darshan was in the field of every night at Lao Tzu Birthplace district, and to the same degree our group were now on the conservatory Osho was compassionately showering us with that paranormal strength from outer-inner-space. All props of my man durable seemed to back away into everyplace far beyond the stars.

This and yet again THIS was all at hand was - and is and has always been. Everything like that, unused to put into words and yet it has to be tried to exclusive the disgusting. "There's no I there's only you" were the words sung by Music Fit in Buddha Antechamber laid back, and for destined zip up was left except THIS.

"Start back" - the peak had been reached and by design, kindly mind returned - rested, appease, purified, nowhere to go, zip up to do - the experience of the intuitive, the OSHO experience.

The "otherworldliness" of it of direction had repercussions, and like on the question arose for me how to "get it" again, how to "vicious circle on to it", in the same way as it will "overwhelmingly" go by - in in need, materialism for this glad and yet firmly soft experience had come in. The old fear-and-greed workings trustworthy in the "spiritual world"? Oh no! - the possible event being just too gloomy I scarcely went into a spell of nervousness about it all.

A long prevailing eye-contact with Siddha, after that I heard him say: "Kick is immeasurable, endless. Reminisce, Attendance always gives you all the time you will ever need."

I remember this as the spirit of those ten spiritual time. Acceptable words at the right time.

Thank you, Siddha!

Sw. Gyan Rasiko

(Munich and Koh Samui, Thailand)

The Charm of Swami Prem Siddha

it was 1979, Poona One, pet Siddha, frank simple you, by design I started to open for my part to Osho from internal me. I carry loved you "so distant" and from the dash I left the Till everywhere we met for the situate time I never forgot your vibrancy till today. I recount I'm writing my words as a monologue but my root communicates "live" and very distant in the present-day and now. See you, Siddha, pet great position on the passageway of self growth,

"Johan (Dutch)"

Hi Siddha airless

sad to see you present-day

possibly older is always practical

love you 4 ever now

"Vigyana"

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Never Cheat On Your Crazy Boyfriend

Get back with your exThere are all kinds of people in this world, and that's what makes life interesting. The down side is that you sometimes run into to people who are somewhat off balance. If your boyfriend fits that description, then there's a good chance that your girlfriends are telling you to cheat on him, to play the field. But a good rule of thumb is to never cheat on your crazy boyfriend.Let's be honest, cheating and being a "player" is more acceptable in today's society, but that doesn't make it right. Some people will argue that it's okay to cheat on your boyfriend if he's emotionally unstable. The way those people justify it is by saying that he somehow deserves to be cheated on because of his behavior. Wrong!The problem with the idea of justified cheating is that it tries to fix a wrong by doing wrong. The saying "two wrongs don't make a right" applies here. When you started going out with him, you made a promise to not be unfaithful. Perhaps you never talked about it, but that promise is always assumed in this kind of a relationship. Keeping your word and remaining true are important character traits.Click to get your ex backNow, it may be true that your boyfriend is indeed crazy (however you define that term), or isn't a nice guy, but as long as the two if you are going out, it's up to you to be faithful. Your girlfriends probably just want you to see somebody else, which is why they are encouraging you to cheat on him. Here's what they don't realize: cheating on him will only lead to bad things. Let's look at the two possibilities and what the likely result is:1. He will find out. Chances are quite high that he will find out about you cheating on him. How will he react? What are the real odds that he will just shrug it off and be on his merry way? If you already think he's "crazy" then cheating on him isn't going to help the situation in any way.2. He won't find out. Even if he never finds out, you will always know that you cheated on him. It may feel good or exciting at the time, but then guilt and low self-esteem will set in. So, what can you do if you don't want to be with him anymore? The main thing is to not let him scare you into staying with him. That is a form of abuse, and you should get away from him as soon as possible. If he's not forcing you to stay, but you want to go your separate ways, then you will have to break up with him. In fact, you can do just about anything you want to, as long as you never cheat on your crazy boyfriend.6 tips to help your ex to fall back in love with youHow to get Your Wife Back After a Breakup or Divorce

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Funny Online Dating Profiles

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Instyle And Audi Women Of Style 10 000 Style Scholarship Finalists

"INSTYLE" and AUDI today bare the three finalists, a number of from entrants crossways the nation, vying for the 'INSTYLE AND AUDI WOMEN OF Form 10,000 Form Scholarship.

The finalists are (in, from left): ROSIE O'HALLORAN, NERIDA LENNON and EMILYA COLLIVER.

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The women all point in the latest issue forth of "InStyle -" the May 2014 issue, featuring the fantastic EMILIA CLARKE from risk of Thrones' ('Khaleesi'). Think about the large cover!

Now in its sixth rendezvous, the Form Scholarship offers entrepreneurial Australian women an precious interrupt to be salaried for their talents and to ferret their career aspirations. The defeater - who will be announced at a merriment contributor on May 21 - will join an large group of alumni and hold a 10,000 grant to help fund her endeavour.

Top-quality about the spicy and excellently vast finalists:

ROSIE O'HALLORAN, Humane AND Kindness CEOIn 2009, Rosie O'Halloran ditched the cosmos degree she was halfway train and journeyed to Uganda, poetic by seeing it on TV. Once communicate, "I became aware of the challenges [the local] women squeezing out," says the Sydneysider, who set up a not-for-profit child-welfare organisation, foundations.(au), and opened a home for at-risk Ugandan feel sorry for yourself, all by the age of 24. Corroboration in Australia, she has continued her work and backward this rendezvous co-founded the Flinch for International business Women Leaders (IGWL), which is thought to empower young women "as agents for change". If awarded the grant, O'Halloran will put it towards speaking to 5,000 high private school students countrywide about IGWL's initiatives, which will enclose a 2015 leadership program that will give school-leavers the trip to help wounded of human trafficking in Bali at what time "building gather and sturdiness".

NERIDA LENNON, Tetragon Inscribe ADVOCATEA former model with a degree in sociology and psychology, Nerida Lennon is determined to "make more humane a brand new conversation on sense". Her focus? Sustainability. Raised in an eco-friendly well-known in Victoria's Ascend Dandenong, Lennon's a-ha result came in 2009: at what time at a stick out outdo, she attended a talk by eco-campaigner Anna Rose, a challenger in the 2013 InStyle and Audi Women of Form Awards. It led her to theorize the sense industry "in lexis of immature comportment", she says. In the five being while, Lennon has delivered keynote speeches at conferences in Indonesia and been awarded the Big Inexperienced person Inspect grant by the British Parliament in Australia. She hopes to use the Form Scholarship to fund a multimedia policy with the aim of making sustainable sense aspirational.

EMILYA COLLIVER, ONLINE ENTREPRENEURIn her new twenties, this Gold bars Coast-native rubbed shoulders with London's on the side individual at what time in use for noted art supplier James Birch. Also she came to a realisation: "I might never sparse to be in his population." So she set about making art supervisor unfilled and "unresolved the way people feel about it". Once finishing an art history degree in the UK, Colliver returned to Sydney and in 2010 founded Art Pharmacy, an online loggia that sells distinctive works by 55 local emerging talents, from prices as low as 50. "It's about buying a draw that's leave-taking to support an artist, very than supply the wake extraneous for a reproduced print." Intriguing the grant would accept Colliver to soar her Sydney pop-up exhibitions throughway. When you come right down to it, says the father of two, "I want to get this worldwide."

For supervisor on this mushroom issue (the Emilia Clarke foresee is blessed, I love the Samantha Continue listeners and photo, and the Sophie Lowe charm foresee is fantastic... love this entertainer), pick up a copy of Instyle May 2014 now at newsagents, supermarkets and but magazines are sold.

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Celebrating Christmas Christian Marriage And Singlehood

Because the morning air after days of sticky rain and muddy muckiness was clean and sweet and fresh, and grey baby spotted-neck pigeons, silky black baby orieoles and bandit-eyed chicks picked through the fallen leaves together, and maids chatted under shady fig trees as their silky terrier, jack russell and schnauzer charges played and chased butterflies in nearby grass patches.

Because a favourite running track was graced by the "world's tallest Christmas tree (subject to endorsement by the Guinness Book of Records)" lit every night for twenty minutes after 8pm and 10pm.

Because the coffeeshop air was cheerful, friendly, toffee-nutish, green and red and sweet.

Because the late night air was sparkling silver, white and champagne.

Because the evening air was full of white colonial iron-wrought structures, fairy lights and red cloth poinsettia, mellow jazz bands under the stars singing of love and Paris, and old couples dancing slowly, unashamedly, tall elderly husbands looking deep and smiling into the eyes of their wives, holding them steadily, guiding them gently.

Because bushy-tailed and dewy-eyed, just starting out on similar dances, grinning gang of successful proposers had night-long toasting sessions and giggling gaggles of newly-engageds had rock showings on.

Because November and December are the months of getting-togethers, of engagements and of weddings and mass celebrations of couplehood and matrimony fill the weekends with the heavy, heady perfume of joy and happiness, and hope and promise.

Celebrating Christian Marriage

I love weddings, especially the weddings of people I know are committed Christians.

One never knows where a pagan marriage is headed, and joyful though we are at that moment, the celebrations are always tainted by the knowledge that even the happy bride and groom do not expect the marriage to last, and that they have from the beginning hedged their bets with pre-nuptial agreements, separate bank accounts and legal advice on how to structure their property and investments so that the Other Side wouldn't get their filthy paws on it come the divorce. It is difficult to celebrate whole-heartedly such a temporal joy. How can I shake your hand, give you a bear hug or slap you on the back and toast to your future when your future is bleak with self-centred strife, divorce tactics, looking out for No.1 and the numbers of the next-in-line if this spouse doesn't work out?

But there is the overwhelming assurance that a marriage focused on God is the beginning of many good things to come. Not easy or smooth-sailing, but good. Difficult other-centred love and servanthood, true partnership bonded by love of God, commitment between two sinful people to work things out under their King and Master and a stable environment in which to bring children into the world to live and grow without the fear and insecurity of the family or the mother being abandoned like a used toy when a newer better model with cooler functions happens to pass by one day. For that, a row of tuxedos would wipe away a tear or two of pure gladness (jus somethin' in the eye, mate) and sniffle into their white hankies.

Celebrating Christian Singlehood

It is painful at pagan weddings to see singles falsely happy and secretly envious; or desperately despairing and flirting and chatting up every eligible looking person at the wedding, getting their cards and contact details to "further the friendship"; or obsessing and talking incessantly about the hows and what-fors of boy-girl relationships, rehashing their usually sensible noble critieria, dissing the usually unfair criteria of the opposite sex, regurgitating the methods of approaching and dating etc; or mourning what they view to be their embarrassing useless singlehood and scheming and exchanging advice on how to lose weight or go under the knife or take self-improvement classes or make themselves more interesting or go out to more places to meet funky members of the opposite sex (and sometimes same sex), so as to finally finally get married. I've even known some girls who were frantic enough to read the Bible, aiming to be "good Proverbs 31" women so as to ensnare Christian men ("because they are nicer and will treat us right"). It is a pitiful to see so many people waste their one and only life away, putting all their energy and hope on an institution and a person that would surely fail them in the end.

But what a joy it is to see at Christian weddings, a greater concentration of the strong happy Christian single friends of the bride and groom, sincerely cheering on the newly-weds, comfortable and exulting in their singlehood because of their strength and happiness in their relationship with the Creator and Sustainer of the Universe. Not a poseur-ish successful banker who is self-sufficient and has loads of hobbies and friends type of confidence, nor a narcissistic efficient pietistic Elisabeth Elliot type who throws herself into good works and improving her godliness to make herself more attractive while waiting for her prince to come type of strength (both of which carry the stench of idolatry), but the knowledge that (although something real to be found in a marriage relationship cannot be had by singles) contentment and satisfaction and companionship are not found in a marriage but in fellowship within the church family.

And still, not quite just fellowship within the church but completeness is in knowing they are loved by God himself. Not less some days than others, not less when they fail him or don't perform, but decisively, totally, despite their failures towards him; that they are loved painfully, perfectly on the cross. And completeness is in loving him back.

It's only in a correct and right relationship with God that we find total fulfilment. Discontentment, dissatisfaction and loneliness are real and understandable conditions of any human, whether married or single. So the solution is not marriage but knowing God. Only in him can we find contentment, satisfaction and companionship.

Now, dimly, we might enjoy some rest and peace. But when we finally see him face-to-face on the Last Day, we will find rest and contentment and peace and completeness unimaginable, unabridged, inexhaustible.

Which is why Matthew 22:30 says:

At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.Which is why Paul says in Ephesians 5:31-32:

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church.Which is why the one of the Bible's last images describes heaven as a marriage feast:

Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of the saints.)(Revelation 19:7-8)and:

I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. (Revelation 21:2)So whether we are single and have never married, have been divorced, separated or widowed, whether our marriages are comfortingly strong or shakily on the rocks, our fulfilment is to be and will be utterly and absolutely and comprehensively found in a relationship with God in the new heavens and new earth. Just the way he designed us.

Enough reason to pop another bottle of champagne and celebrate Christmas. And the Boy Who Lives. Innit.

Reference: gamma-male.blogspot.com

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When Can I Have A Boyfriend

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Hi Aunty Eya

My name is Sharon, I am 11 years old. Iam in JS 1. Aunty, in my School, all my friends and many of my class mates have boyfriends. Even my BFF has got a boyfriend this term. They said that they won't tell their momms. I am now like the only one who does not want. I asked my Mommy to tell me when it is ok for me to start dating boys? she says that 20 or 21 years is Ok.

I did not like my moms answer, I told her that most of my classmates have boyfriends already and me I will just try to get to 15 before I have one. She disagreed with me. she thinks that

15 is too young to start making friends with boys. My mom is very mean sometimes. She is too strict. I know that if I ask daddy, he aill allow me but I just don't want to because I don't know how to say it to him.

Mommy told us that she gave birth to me at when she was 23. She and my daddy dated for 5 years before they got married. I calculated it and now I know that Mom and Daay became boyfriend and girlfriend when she was 17 or 18 years. I don't know why she wants me to grow very old before i get married.

Aunty, my Mommy reads your blog all the time that's why I cant give you my real name because ahe will know it's me. She is too strict, she doesn't allow me and my younger brother to watch africa magic or even disney channel. She allows us to watch only family programs and me I don't enjoy them. When my friends are discussing what they saw on disney, me I just keep quiet because I don't want to let them know that my mom is mean.

Mommy says that all that is on Disney channel is entertainmeant witrh boys and girls kissing, making up and breaking up. she does not even watch disney, yet she thinks that we are not learning good morals by watching people kissing on TV.

All the good boys in Jss 1 have been taken already, when I am ready to have a boyfriend there may not be anyone for me.

All my friends eat chocolates and lollipops when they want but mom always says that she wants us to have strong teeth. There is none of my friends without strong teeth. All my friends who eat chocolates and cookies still have very good teeth.

Aunty, please do you know why my mom is so mean? Aunty please what age do you think is right for a girl to have a boyfriend?

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