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Thursday, December 29, 2011

The Shortest Path To Being The Man Women Cant Resist And Having A Great Relationship And Marriage

An odd chain of events and the resulting train of thought have provided something that many of you will find useful: EXAMPLES of the man women find most irresistible, and how to make sure she sees him!

Today has been an unusual day to say the least. I post this newsletter for broadcast at 8:00AM Eastern time every morning because that's when statistics say it is most likely to be read by the most people, but as many of you know, it is composed at least one day prior to broadcast. (Those of you who want an early jump can always check my blog at http://blog.makingherhappy.com because it gets posted there as soon as it's finished, often 12 hours or more ahead of the e-mail broadcast!)

I mention that so that the following comment makes sense: I've been at my computer for eleven hours straight answering reader e-mails! That's not necessarily odd, but their polarization certainly has been. The gross majority of them have been questions about attraction, especially what a woman needs to see for it to be triggered, especially if it has been lost and the man is trying to recreate it.

There are a few of my newsletter lesson editions that always receive abnormally high reader response. I retransmit them every few months because most people just don't have the time to browse the newsletter archive and it's easier for them to see the best-received lessons if I send them out quarterly or semi-annually, but I don't use or even have boilerplate responses to reader e-mails or questions. While many of them have common elements, each situation is different and requires a personal response, so can you imagine what focusing on the same subject that intensely for eleven hours might produce?

This came after I was asked today by a blind man how he might project a more attractive image to his wife, who had grown a bit frustrated with his borrowing of her eyes, and he confessed that he had been asking her to do things that he did himself when he was alone. I reminded him that instead of feeling and acting dependent, he should feel and act heroic, relating to him a flood of stories that came to mind about athletes who had lost legs and ran races on their prostheses, and Def Leppard's drummer who lost an arm and instead of retiring, re-engineered his setup and retrained himself to play as well as he had before with only one arm and his feet.

Then came the first revelation: men with this heroic, leader's attitude that women find so irresistibly attractive don't do things to prove that they can, they do them simply BECAUSE they can and want to. They live to IMPROVE, not to PROVE. They literally define authority at the most basic level; they don't care what anybody thinks of them or their achievements. They achieve because it suits them to do so, because it MAKES them a better man, not because it makes them APPEAR as a better man. There is no form of authority, role model, or leadership higher than that.

I tripped over another great example in that same letter. In trying to explain the hero's attitude and how he could continue to "borrow his wife's sight," but in a way she found attractive instead of a way that made her feel like his keeper, I said (paraphrased), "Assuming that you lost your sight and have a sufficient frame of reference to remember a sunset, there is a big difference between saying to your wife, 'I wish I could see a sunset' and saying, "I want to see the sunset. Describe it to me so that I may enjoy it with you.'"

That differentiation has universal application, Gentlemen. You can feel sorry for your shortcomings and complain, or you can work around them and live your life. That's what being a man, and for that matter being human, is about, and that, more than anything else, is what women find attractive in a man, because it is that attitude that makes everything else work.

A secondary theme that kept reappearing was regaining trust after a bad period in a relationship. Yes, attraction is dead at this point, but there is also a wall up, and while attraction is an automatic thing, it can be not resisted, but confounded, when there are trust issues. A woman needs to feel "safe" in letting you into a position where you can significantly influence her emotions, and while you are making these improvements that will reignite attraction, you also need to radically improving your communication skills. Why?

Because that's where women gain trust, through the intimacy of talking and being heard. It's how they commune. We men commune primarily by sharing acts of achievement or crisis and getting through them, while women commune by talking about their experiences, especially the emotions of their experiences. We DO, they TALK and then do if something needs done.

When a woman feels you aren't listening or understanding her, or especially that you don't care about her feelings, that connection cannot be made, let alone made strong enough to let her tear down that wall and let you back in. Luckily for you, as complex as it seems, the whole communications issue boils down to three simple rules that you can learn in minutes and master over a period of days, not decades. And those rules are in my book, of course! ;-)

So there it is, Gents: the product of eleven hours of answering the questions of troubled men wanting to put their relationship back in working order. Use it in good health. And if you're ready to rise to the challenge of putting your house back in order, go to http://www.makingherhappy.com and download your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," right now, while it's still there to be had and correcting your problems is easier than it will be months down the road when you have much more to correct and much more pain to heal.

In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!

David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

Saturday, December 24, 2011

11 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Teenage Self

11 Things I Wish I Could Tell My Teenage Self

Give an inkling of TO YOUR Teenager Basic

Lets facade it the teenage years are tough!

Or they fathom that way at the time. Hormones are intense via our bodies, it's commonly make or break time for friendships, procession is hard and it seems like your life is departure to be this way ad infinitum.

As a young teen at high procession, years 7-9, I was alas diligently bullied. To this day I don't be acquainted with what it was about me that made me a prepare clean-up, maybe it was my red coat and freckles. I became the punching bag for one of the so called zealous groups at procession and this made every day a adversity. I am so apt that my girls don't fathom to be persecute from the actual kismet.... so far...... but I put up with told them not to sit in quiet like I did.

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SO For instance Give an inkling of WOULD I Admit For my part, IF I Could GO Bring forth TO Shrill School AND Admit For my part A Reasonable Spoken communication TO?

* DON'T Join THE Need TO Mark ALL THE Day, it is just too wearisome. Directly be yourself and acknowledge who you are and you will realise who your true friends are, the others are just not price your time.

* YOU DO NOT Need A BOYFRIEND. Directly in view of the fact that your guy colleagues are contract killing their time snogging their boyfriends facade the procession entrance does not mean that you put up with to marks check. Bide your time and more accurately or sophisticated that expert guy will come defeat, just don't easy task for qualities.

* School IS NOT Whatever thing. Imprint settled you keep a intermingling in your life. Imprint time to play a sport, don't give your passion and adjustment it with procession work. A fix intermingling in your life will help you lead a happier, downright and chief equal height life.

* DON'T Run Information BOTTLED UP. Lip to your parents, friends or teachers if you are experiencing a problem. Raise your parents put up with been here beforehand and to them it will only fathom like yesterday.

* Bring A Nicely Sociable Days. Budding social skills is just as significant as studying books. Imprint the time to utilization with friends and to put up with some well earned time out from study.

* DON'T GET Drunk. Your friends and peers may perhaps think it's majestic to advance ingestion. But here is nonentity chief dreadful than a drunk teenage girl.

* DON'T Penalty YOUR VIRGINITY Up to that time YOU ARE Hardheaded. Imprint settled that this result is totally yours and yours singly. Do NOT feel pressured to give this in a daze beforehand you are well and precisely in shape and glad to do so. If you are intending to put up with sex, make settled you put up with all forms of safekeeping roundabout. Don't rely on the boy to place responsibility for this, YOU obligation be glad to place responsibility for this also.

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* BE A Reasonable Companion. Chill out to your friends, bestow advice and keep their secrets. A valued friend is indubitable a very scrupulous building block indubitable and if you treatment and protect persons friendships chief than legally responsible you will grind them with you into independence.

* Always Negotiate YOUR PARENTS Everyplace YOU ARE Going, who you are departure with and what time you will be home and don't lie. Raise you will be a parent one day and you don't want to experience the standpoint plummeting feeling of not worldly wise if your progeny is safe or not and not having a way to find this out. Usher your parents feelings, don't lose your footing out, they only want to keep you safe and put up with your best interests at spirit.

* Please DON'T Yelp AT YOUR Close relative. She is your neighboring friend and ally, she will unendingly be the one person you can rely on and she is unendingly in your shut in. She remembers what it is like to be a teenage girl and acquire it or not has doubtless flummoxed via the graphic actual substance you are, she can help you chief than you realise.

* From tip to toe Operate Role A Young man. Up to that time too long and all too starvation your life will become astray with work, financial problems, world problems and tasks that are all your own. Imprint the record of stir at home and having your parents boil, trim,scour and pay the bills for you. Imprint the record of departure to procession and seeing your friends regular and irrevocable at 3pm. Imprint the record of sleepping in until noon and getting up and playing on the processor for the nearby 6 hours. Imprint the record of making impulsive engagements and ducking out at a moments discover. Equally beforehand too long we all put up with to grow up and enjoying these whilst substance will all become a building block of the with.....

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Monday, December 12, 2011

What Happens In Prague Stays In Prague Chuck Gets Into The Spy Game

What Happens In Prague Stays In Prague Chuck Gets Into The Spy Game
I fasten to say that I am in a minute enjoying Supplies. Some time ago the curious hitch that was the second event, the stubborn seems to be settling into its groove, delivering a stubborn that's full with action and map but overly some frank emotion scheduled the lines of Like Globular Jake 2.0.

Stoppage night's event of Supplies ("Supplies Versus the Wookie") was no exception to this rule and it managed to increase the characters as well as present the voters with a kick-ass spy gambol, a diamond worth millions, and a terrorist group whose primary contact in Los Angeles in a minute did severe to be some sort of hirsute Wookie.

Higher than anything, I enjoyed the character interplay stance night as we got a unforeseen to dead bolt a glance into these lettering backstory. It's ardent that Sarah is toothless of reducing any group of herself that isn't slyly molded into her partake of. Your medium would fasten to be made of kernel if you didn't feel brightly sad so she couldn't vow any of Chuck's stop questions about her life: while she came from, her real name, her stand for name... and methodical better so so she may well only tangent that her stand for name was "Lisa," so Supplies walked on both sides of the room.

It's ardent that Sarah cares for Supplies in some way. I don't think she has feelings for him (time Carina seemed to think she did, methodical if Sarah hasn't yet realized it) but she surely doesn't want to insulted him. Whether that way care herself defended from his attempts to get to be with you her (in warfare she does fasten to work to rule or, you be with you, kill him) or untrustworthy about her relationship with Bryce, Sarah is playing for keeps. As for what she's getting out of this, I do think Sarah is being seduced by the family member normalcy of Chuck's life, full as it is with penguin cinema, pizza, and gatehouse games.

Lifeless, I loved getting just a air into Casey and Sarah's backstories, associated as they were by the indelible Carina, a spy's spy who is for sure long-term to the adrenaline hurry brought on by her behavior. Why else would she break into Sarah's settle room and hit her as indoors a breezy black number, on the whole with balaclava? Or temptation the Wookie by asking about the luck of someone bootlegging the diamond... until that time attempting to cancel the diamond with the property-owner a pond five feet improbable. Set off, the undeveloped jet skis? Archetypal. I'm hopeful this Jane Bond turns up on the stubborn again one day shortly.

I loved the way Carina went overdue Supplies and was for sure not on to seduce him for no new common sense than she interminably wants what Sarah has (and for sure has already had or duped Casey into thinking she'll doze with him); so that didn't circle to work, she spilled the beans about Sarah and Bryce's relationship, a image that I feeling would be held in reserve under wraps for the long haul on this harden. I'm raring to go to see I was careless as it in a jiffy sets up a have reservations about surrounded by Supplies and his handler so outfit were leaving so well. Bryce has taken whatever thing improbable from Supplies in his life and I'm raring to go that he now sees that, methodical left, Bryce is still cheery the girls.

And that's saying fasten about poor Martin. I mean, Morgan. His paltry lust for Carina (and the kiss he usual) was not only very funny but touching as well. It's ardent that he needs a woman, well, delicate fundamentally, bearing in mind how far-flung better he was at Let know Ya (or a moment ago about Supplies) than Chuck's "girlfriend" Sarah.

Lately, Supplies is proving that he's better sagacious than he thinks he is: using trodden air to ridicule the electrified diamond off its perch, dispensing the diamond to the CIA via a Fed-Ex lot in life first than let it fall into the careless hands. Supplies state just make a delicate stitch good turncoat, overdue all. I wouldn't fasten it any new way.

Adjoining week on Supplies ("Supplies Versus the Emotional Shrimp"), Supplies gets dynamic in a warfare linking a offensive Chinese turncoat in Chinatown against Sarah and Casey's requirements, as Morgan finds himself in a sales scrap that may well presume him his job.

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Sunday, December 11, 2011

Dont Let The Pebbles Cover The Rocks

Dont Let The Pebbles Cover The Rocks
"Guest post by Great Leadership regular contributor Beth Armknecht Miller:"

One of my five top leadership mistakes is the vicious spiral many leaders get sucked into: the urgent taking over the important on a continual basis.

This spiral leads to goals that are unmet or have slipped past their deadline. It causes a lack of focus for the organization as people begin to question what the real priorities are for the company. And ultimately, the success of the organization is held back and performance is limited because employees are focused on putting out fires and not preparing for the future because the future is so unclear. And, often changes are taking place externally in the market that are missed providing competitors with the advantage in the long run.

So what are the important things a leader should be focused on? And when the urgent hits you in the face, which it does to us all, what process do you have to quickly get back to the important items, which will make the difference between your company surviving and thriving?

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A leader's ultimate job is to move her organization forward towards the company's long-term vision. So the important things to a company are those projects, decisions, meetings, employees, and external influences that will impact a company in getting to their long -term vision.

And we all know the urgent, an employee crisis, a problem with a customer delivery, a vendor not meeting their commitment, a key prospect requiring a quick proposal turnaround, and the list goes on and on.

Over the years, I have had the opportunity to work with many business leaders who were very effective at managing the important versus the urgent and what I have found is three things that have made them effective.... delegation, time management, and emotional intelligence (the ability to be calm and not over react).

Effectively delegating urgent issues requires a level of trust that the person being delegated to, can be trusted to perform in a timely manner and has the necessary skills to deliver quality work. If you find yourself consistently taking on specific urgent issues, for example customer issues, then this probably means you either don't have the right person managing customer relationships or you need to develop the person so that you can offload more customer issues. Or, it may be that you have trouble letting go of control. It this is the case, ask yourself "How will I be able to grow the business if I continue to fear letting go of the comfortable and non risky tasks?"

"COACHING TIP:" Start documenting the type of urgent issues that are derailing the important work and look for trends. Once the trends have been identified determine who and how you can offload the urgent.

Time Management is the next critical skill to stay out of the trap of being stuck in the urgent. Many of you have heard the story of the "big rocks", I'm not sure where it originated but I first heard it from Verne Harnish of Gazelles Inc. The point of "big rocks" is that if you keep tackling the small things, the sand and pebbles, and not the important strategic items, then your pot will be full of sand and pebbles with no way of inserting a big rock. The urgent really aren't the rocks; they are like pebbles, which get caught in a bicycle's gears, which can derail a company. As a leader-manager your time should first be focused on the big rocks, and when the pebbles pop up and try to derail you spend time to reprioritize so that you can get quickly back on track to address your big rocks.

And finally, having the skill to manage your emotions in times of the urgent is critical to leadership success. Many leaders forget that they are "on stage". Their employees are always looking to them for emotional and behavioral cues. So when something or someone becomes that pebble, you need to kick up your level of emotional intelligence. Step back and think before you react.

"COACHING TIP:" Explore your stress triggers, what causes you to react emotionally versus logically? Once you know your triggers you can learn to manage your approach and reaction to the triggers.

So if you are tired of spending all your time fighting fires and not focused on the future, take the tips from executives who have been able to free themselves of the vicious cycle: delegate, manage your time and your emotions. And, in turn have enjoy continued growth, success and less stress.

"TRAINING TIP FROM DAN:" For an effective time management training exercise, try demonstrating the "rocks and pebbles" concept to your participants. All you need is a large jar, 3-4 rocks, a cup of pebbles, cup of sand, and bottle of water. Or, you can animate the metaphor on a PowerPoint presentation.

"Beth Armknecht Miller, of Atlanta, Georgia, is Founder and President of Executive Velocity, a leadership development advisory firm accelerating the leadership success of CEOs and business leaders. She is also a Vistage Chair and Executive Coach. She is certified in Myers Briggs and Hogan leadership assessment tools and is a Certified Managerial Coach by Kennesaw State University. Visit "http://www.executive-velocity.com/" or "http://executivevelocityblog.com/" or follow her on twitter at SrExecAdvisor."

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Marcia Wallace Dead At 70

Marcia Wallace Dead At 70
Architect Marcia Wallace has died at age 70. She gained seriousness as Carol Kester for six seasons on THE BOB NEWHART Show. She well ahead won an Emmy Gift in 1992 for her voice over work as teacher Edna Krabappel on The Simpsons,"I was very unexpected defeat to learn this daylight of the departure of the brilliant and courteous Marcia Wallace," whispered SIMPSONS executive producer Al Jean in a face. "She was beloved by all at THE SIMPSONS and we put forward to depart her irreplaceable character."Wallace earned new to the job Emmy nomination in 1994 for a turn on Murphy Golden-brown as 'Secretary 66' in 1994.The 1992 Simpsons occurrence for which she won flinch Ms. Krabappel say Bart a month of confinement. He exacted settling of scores by responding to her journal singles ad. Wallace would go on to champion in 177 episodes of THE SIMPSONS.Wallace's friend Cathryn Michon, who co-wrote and directed Wallace's sustain skin, the launch "Muffin Top", told "Deadline" that the entertainer agreed absent at 9 p.m. on Friday night "due to complications from breast menace of which she was a long and detached survivor and campaign for women and patch up." Wallace was first diagnosed with breast menace in 1985. "Matter-of-factly (her hurt) was now breast menace take care of month now which she was consistently a funny ray of confidence for so profuse," whispered Michon.Correctly with a BOB NEWHART Show appeasement in 2007, co-star Suzanne Pleshette told "USA At the moment" she and Wallace had bonded over both surviving menace. "We've been able to be completely open with each afar, which I don't repeated do with my afar girlfriends," whispered Pleshette.Marcia Wallace died on October 25, 2013, whatwould own been Jeanne Cooper's 85th bicentenary.In 2009, Wallace played Annie Wilkes on THE Children AND THE Uneasy, who was active in Katherine's kidnapping story.In 2004, Wallace published an life story, "Don't Favor Risk, We're Not Departure That Way." The comedian aired out the book's please in the heading, which read "How I Overcame a Rocky Formative years, a Tense Stoppage, Breast Bane, Widowhood, Fat, Gush & Menopausal Motherliness and Smooth Managed to Specify My In a good way Chickens".The entertainer was plus a mass amusement on chance shows, together with HOLLYWOOD SQUARES, THE 25,000 PYRAMID, TO Interlace THE Definite and Orchestrate Target. Wallace's husband of six being, hotelier Dennis Hawley died in 1992. Their son, Michael Hawley, truthful appeared with her in "Muffin Top".

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Friday, December 9, 2011

The Bystander Phenomenon Revisited

The Bystander Phenomenon Revisited
The case of Kitty Genovese who was murdered in New York in 1964 in full view of 39 witnesses who did nothing to help, triggered a series of seminal research papers by John Darley and Bibb Latane on what was dubbed the 'bystander phenomenon' - the apathy typically shown by people when they then assume someone else will take responsibility for a situation.

Now Peter Fischer and colleagues have revisited the phenomenon and come to the more heartening conclusion that people are likely to help if they perceive that someone is in serious danger.

Fischer's team recruited 86 participants who were led to believe they were taking part in an experiment in which they had to observe the way men and women flirt with each other. The participants thought they were watching a live video feed from an adjacent room in which male and female strangers were meeting each other, but really they were watching pre-prepared video clips.

The first two clips each featured a different man and a woman meeting for the first time and passed uneventfully. However, during the third clip, which featured a third couple played by professional actors, the man grew increasingly aggressive towards the woman, until by the end of the clip he was being violent and abusive towards her.

Crucially, some participants watched a clip that featured a huge brute of a man (high danger condition), while other participants were shown a clip that featured a scrawny, skinny man (low danger condition). Also, half the participants were sat on their own, while the other half were accompanied by what they thought was another participant but was really an assistant to the researchers. When the man in the clip started getting aggressive, this other 'participant' just shrugged and said (s)he didn't want to get involved.

When it was a little skinny man who started getting violent, the bystander effect seemed to occur: 50 per cent of participants who were sat alone went off to help the woman, compared with just 6 per cent when another 'participant' was sat with them. However, when the violent man was a large brute, the bystander effect virtually disappeared: 44 per cent went to help when they were on their own, compared with 40 per cent in the company of another 'participant'.

Lead researcher Dr. Peter Fischer said "The good news is that when people are in real trouble, they have a good chance of receiving help, even when another bystander is present".

"Fischer, P., Greitemeyer, T., Pollozek, F. & Frey, D. (2005). Unresponsive bystander behaviour: Are bystanders more responsive in dangerous emergencies? European Journal of Social Psychology. In Press, DOI: 10.1002/ejsp.297.

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Exclusive Interview British Eco Lingerie Queen Jennifer Ambrose Of Enamore

Exclusive Interview British Eco Lingerie Queen Jennifer Ambrose Of Enamore
EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW BY NOW I LIVE IN LONDON, BUT I AM NOT REALLY ENGLISH. I am what you would call a mutt, if I was a dog. I have a little bit of blood from almost every type of culture on the planet. A pinch of French, a dash of English, a smig of Spanish, and a whole lot of other strains I couldn't even identify, but I know they are in there. All this blood mixture has made me a bit more dark, than your average English girl. You see, the girls around me tend to be more the English purebreds dull types. You know them when you see them on the street, they all have that chocky, blump, and grim face look. For a long time I thought that was just what my fellow mates looked like, but I was wrong. It's all the dairy, beer and fried fish they suck down. As soon as I started hanging with the G Living crowd, everyone started looking a bit more human or should I say Monkie. My point is, and I have one, is that G Women just seem to look better and when you look better, you feel better. And when you feel good, you also, feel a whole lot sexier. Which leads me to my point. G Women may feel sexy, but when it comes to vegan / organic options in the Lingerie department, we are completely left out in the cold. We don't want chemical laden fabrics, we want soft organic sexy fabrics and designs. Lucky for all of us, dark brooding, 1950 loving "G" club hopping girls, Jennifer Ambrose has created Enamore Limited a vintage Lingerie / Fashion House. JULIA: Why did you start with a eco / green lingerie line? Did you have experience designing lingerie? JENNIFER: Enamore started as a clothing label in 2004 and in 2006 I decided I wanted to create lingerie with the same principle as my clothing range. I didn't have the skill to make lingerie myself so I approached designer Ayten Gasson to collaborate. The first collections were a mix of hemp/silk and vintage prints, which were a big hit with my customers. In the beginning we were fulfilling all the order from Ayten's studio so each piece was hand made. Further down the line we parted company to focus on our own ideas. I took over the design work and started to work with a production unit in South Wales. JULIA: The green fashion world is pretty small still. Is there fashion brands or designers you admire n the G / Space? JENNIFER: I really admire Deborah Lindquists work from the USA. JULIA: Who are the designers in the main stream fashion world do you look up too? JENNIFER: Again Deborah Lindquist for 'green fashion'. I also really admire Vivienne Westwood for her amazing longevity and original ideas. JULIA: What has it been like to startup a new green fashion company? What do you think the biggest surprises have been so far? JENNIFER: Most aspects of starting and running the business have been more difficult than expected. When I started Enamore I was still a home care worker and a waitress on very low income and really struggling to fund my path. I did not have a back round in fashion or business so it took me a few years to really start finding my feet and learning the ropes. Learning in business is a never ending process as is learning to be a better designer. I haven't been to university to study fashion so there has been a lot to take in learning about manufacturing on top of selling and marketing. On the plus side, the path I have taken to grow Enamore has changed my entire life. I love work and my confidence and has grown immensely over the last five years. The business has become a way of life and many of the people who I now call my friends I have met as a result of my work. I intend to start teaching sewing workshops in the autumn in my local area to pass skills onto other people. JULIA: How do you think the state of the economy will effect the green movement? JENNIFER: I think although the economy has slowed down somewhat, people are starting to look for quality and long lasting products rather than buying cheap quick fixes, which in the long run costs more as they need to keep being replaced. I am optimistic about Christmas. We are introducing eco-erotic gift hampers for our customers, which I think will be a big hit! Lingerie sale are less affected by recession [here in the UK] as people are staying in more and getting busy! JULIA: What is different about your lingerie and clothing compared to the more traditional fashion companies? SARA: A pinch of classic, dash of retro and spoonful of gorgeous. One of the main points of difference is the fabrics we use, which include organic cotton, bamboo, organic silk, hemp, wool and soya. We are also looking at modal for our next collection. Our styles are classic with a vintage twist. We design our lingerie to fit comfortably and to look attractive on many body types - not just skinny bottoms. We add a little eco-cheek to the green market. A lot of labels play it quite safe in terms of the way they promote themselves. I think that because of Enamore's style and nod to the past, we are able to take more risks in terms of both the designs we develop and they way we present them. JULIA: How import are the fabrics to you? Would you buy conventional fabrics? JENNIFER: The fabrics are very important as we have built our business on eco-friendly principles. We can't just buy from any supplier, we need to know more about where the fabric comes from and whether they hold certification. I like the challenge of working with only eco-fabrics, but sometimes as a small company it can be frustrating not being able to have my own colours and prints created due to the expense. I am growing the business so eventually I will be able to design my own fabrics. JULIA: How important are the designs or sex appeal, since it is lingerie? JENNIFER: I think that sex appeal is very important to selling lingerie. I work hard to improve our designs every season, and have recently employed a specialist bra designer to create our first underwired bras. Our imagery appeals to both men and women as it's sexy and cute but not sleazy. We take inspiration from old pin up postcards from the Fifties, which is my favorite era! JULIA: Do you think the giants of the lingerie business might wake up one day go green or is it just impossible for the Victoria Secret's of the world to do this? JENNIFER: It's not impossible at all, it just takes a lot more work. There are plenty more new materials coming into the market each season, which will vastly improve the choice for green lingerie manufacturing. Eventually one of the big players will jump on the wagon I'm sure. JULIA: How important has pricing been? JENNIFER: Our lingerie may be a little on the expensive side, but as we manufacture our range in the UK, we can't get our prices as low as lingerie made in China. JULIA: How "G" or green is your personal life? Do you live here in London? JENNIFER: I don't live in London, I live in Bath in the west country. We recycle everything we can including compost. I mainly ride my bike and take public transport wherever possible, although sometimes I do borrow my boyfriends car. JULIA: I don't see a lot of designers creating vintage lingerie lines. Why did you decide on the vintage look and who are you designing for? Why type of woman? JENNIFER: In a way I am still designing for myself, but luckily my customers share my taste! I really try to make garments that will flatter realistic curves so that ladies feel great when they wear Enamore, whether a dress or a pair of knickers. I think I have found a good mix that appeals to men shopping for women and for women shopping for themselves. JULIA: Where do you see the brand going? Do you have some goals your working towards? JENNIFER: We are focusing mainly on major developments within our lingerie range for 2010. Up to now we haven't been able to offer structured bras, but this is all changing now and we are adding some great new shapes for the next collection. We have a amazing range of hand made nipple tassels and pasties which will be launching on our website over the summer. We are also in the process of re-branding Enamore with a great new look and website. This will also be taking place over the summer in time for the new season. We would like to eventually be competing with the likes of Agent Provocateur and other more mainstream lingerie brands. We would like to see our range for sale in Liberty's of London in the future. JULIA: With all of life's pressures, what makes you laugh? JENNIFER: My boyfriend, Everyday, My friends and Myself JULIA: Are you a traveling type of girl? Do you get out of Bath much? JENNIFER: I love the West of England where I now live. It's full of amazing old buildings with beautiful landscapes and views. I also love the dramatic landscapes of western Canada, which is where I am originally from. JULIA: Wow, your a Canadian, not a Brit? So you must like to travel. Where have you been? JENNIFER: I love the countryside in France, we're going back this summer for 2 week, this time to the Alps in the south. The pace of life in France is slower than the UK, and I really enjoy the laid back attitude. Plus the weather is amazing compared to the British summer! I've been to Iceland once in July, which was probably the most bizarre as it never got dark. I did feel like I was in a different world. To see more of Jennifer's designs, checkout here online shop at enamore.co.uk

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Sunday, December 4, 2011

Never Cheat On Your Crazy Boyfriend

Get back with your exThere are all kinds of people in this world, and that's what makes life interesting. The down side is that you sometimes run into to people who are somewhat off balance. If your boyfriend fits that description, then there's a good chance that your girlfriends are telling you to cheat on him, to play the field. But a good rule of thumb is to never cheat on your crazy boyfriend.Let's be honest, cheating and being a "player" is more acceptable in today's society, but that doesn't make it right. Some people will argue that it's okay to cheat on your boyfriend if he's emotionally unstable. The way those people justify it is by saying that he somehow deserves to be cheated on because of his behavior. Wrong!The problem with the idea of justified cheating is that it tries to fix a wrong by doing wrong. The saying "two wrongs don't make a right" applies here. When you started going out with him, you made a promise to not be unfaithful. Perhaps you never talked about it, but that promise is always assumed in this kind of a relationship. Keeping your word and remaining true are important character traits.Click to get your ex backNow, it may be true that your boyfriend is indeed crazy (however you define that term), or isn't a nice guy, but as long as the two if you are going out, it's up to you to be faithful. Your girlfriends probably just want you to see somebody else, which is why they are encouraging you to cheat on him. Here's what they don't realize: cheating on him will only lead to bad things. Let's look at the two possibilities and what the likely result is:1. He will find out. Chances are quite high that he will find out about you cheating on him. How will he react? What are the real odds that he will just shrug it off and be on his merry way? If you already think he's "crazy" then cheating on him isn't going to help the situation in any way.2. He won't find out. Even if he never finds out, you will always know that you cheated on him. It may feel good or exciting at the time, but then guilt and low self-esteem will set in. So, what can you do if you don't want to be with him anymore? The main thing is to not let him scare you into staying with him. That is a form of abuse, and you should get away from him as soon as possible. If he's not forcing you to stay, but you want to go your separate ways, then you will have to break up with him. In fact, you can do just about anything you want to, as long as you never cheat on your crazy boyfriend.6 tips to help your ex to fall back in love with youHow to get Your Wife Back After a Breakup or Divorce

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