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Monday, September 9, 2013
Rapport Vs Compliance How To Get A Completely Compliant Prospect
There is a lot of talk in the persuasion and NLP community about rapport and how to gain it. Yes, it is absolutely true what they say that "With rapport anything is possible and without it nothing is possible." Plenty of trainers have dedicated a LOT of seminar time to rapport building exercises like mirroring and matching. That said, I want to go up a level and talk about what we are really wanting to achieve in persuasion and that is compliance. Face it, if you are in a persuasion setting and have an outcome for someone, what you want them to be is COMPLIANT to your outcome. If you don't agree with that then LEAVE THIS PAGE NOW because it's a simple fact that a lot of "white lighters" would rather not face. It is possible to have compliance without rapport and many have achieved that by threats, guilt, shame, guns to heads, and other less-than-positive behaviors but there are a more pleasant ways to gain compliance. Ways to create compliance: * Assume authority By presenting yourself as the authority in what you know and what you are doing people will tend to treat you accordingly. * Ask for compliance Bet you didn't think of that. Yes, you can do that by simply asking somehow. Example: "I'd like to ask you to simply follow along here and give my your whole attention. No doubt a lot of people might have something else on their minds, so, for while I'm here would you be willing to put those things aside for the next 5 minutes?" * Build compliance This is a old sales trick. The salesperson asks the prospect to sit in a different chair than the prospect is sitting in or use one pen instead of another. The salesperson then acknowledges the prospect each time he complies. One famous lecturer would frame success in his training as requiring a need for 'discipline' and, under that pretense, ask the audience to discipline themselves to stand up from their chair, turn around and sit down every time he snapped his fingers. After snapping he fingers every ten minutes during his 2 hour presentation he built a very compliant audience. In the area of successful dating for men someone came up with the concept of the "mini-date" where the man would expose his date to several different environments in one date. This could include meeting at a coffee shop then going to a costume store to try on costumes and followed by a walk through an antique store or some unique part of town. All very cheap and creates an experience where the woman yields to the experience that the man creates, subtly creating compliance. (I'd love to hear of any womans use of this technique.) Now the same can also be applied in order to build rapport. * Assume rapport Present yourself as already being in rapport with your prospect. * Ask for rapport Not difficult. It could sound something like this "Bob, I'm going to assume that I can feel comfortable talking with you today, like we're old friends talking business. For while we're here would you be willing to work from that same assumption?" * Build rapport Learn rapport skills and USE THEM! Now the difference between rapport and compliance is that, as a general rule, rapport is designed to effect the unconscious behaviors and compliance directs the conscious behaviors. There have been some very effective persuaders and therapists who have relied solely on compliance, even to the point of breaking rapport, and still gotten good results. My advice USE EVERYTHING to get your outcome. What internal quality does it take to build strong compliance? The best quality is a fearless belief that what you are doing. Or, as they explained in the movie "Glengarry Glen Ross", a set of brass balls. Good luck. JK Ellis PS There are a lot of very sneaky covert ways to get compliance with people. To find out more go to http://www.MindControl101.com/black-ops-hypnosis.html
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Depressed Because I Have Never Been Able To Get A Date
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Thursday, March 7, 2013
Seven Free Ways To Be Romantic
While those things all look great in the movies, such extravagances aren't reality. By the time work ends each day, the commute concludes, the kids are fed, etc., who has the energy to plan for romance and who has the money to constantly finance it?
Romance is another area in life that begs for simplicity. There are dozens of easy and "free" ways to be romantic! The beauty is that you can begin today. Don't wait for a special occasion like Valentine's day to do something for your loved one. A little unexpected gesture can mean a lot.
Here are seven ideas (one for each day of the week!):
* HOLD HANDS
Do you ever hold hands with your partner? If this is something you associate with lovey-dovey young couples, don't automatically dismiss it. Taking your partner's hand on a walk is a lovely way to feel close and connected. If you are talking, holding hands will make the conversation more intimate. It's a tiny, effortless thing that instantly makes any moment a caring and romantic one.
* MAKE DINNER SPECIAL
If you're having a quiet night in rather than going out to a restaurant, don't just sit on the sofa in front of the television. Set the table, light candles, and put some gentle music on in the background. Use nice plates and take a couple of extra minutes to display the food on them attractively. This will really set the mood for a special meal - even if what you're eating is no different from normal.
* WRITE A NOTE
When you leave before your partner's awake, leave a note on the nightstand to say, "I love you". If your partner takes a packed lunch to work, pop a surprise note inside. Leave a note in his wallet, or her jewelery case. Get creative and playful - how about changing your partner's background on the computer to a message saying "I love you"? Or putting a note inside the book s/he's reading?
* BAKE COOKIES
Making your partner's favorite treats is another way to do something sweet. The time and care you take is what makes this romantic. How about heart-shaped cookies using their favorite flavorings, or cupcakes with pink or red frosting?
* MAKE A LIST
Jot down twenty things that you love about your partner. Make them personal and true while trying to avoid clich'es. "I love your blue eyes" isn't as special as "I love you for bringing me breakfast in bed every Saturday". Once you've got a list you're happy with, turn it into a framed poster, or make a tiny card book with one item on each page. This could be a lovely surprise gift.
* SNUGGLE UP
If you end up sitting in different chairs to watch a DVD together or, worse, on the other side of the room, try snuggling up on the sofa instead. Give your partner a cuddle when you're both standing in the kitchen. Kiss him/her goodbye in the morning. Like holding hands, these physical gestures mean a lot. Don't only snuggle as a prelude to sex - be affectionate just for the sake of it!
* SAY "I LOVE YOU"
I've saved the best tip until last. This is the simplest, easiest way to be romantic - and yet so many of us don't do it. Say "I love you" to your partner frequently. Make it the first thing you say in the morning, or the last thing you say at night, the words on your lips when you leave for work, and when you come through the front door in the evening.
"I'm sure Dumb Little Man's readers will have some great tips on how to be romantic for free (or very cheaply) - so let's hear them in the comments! You might also enjoy the article on "Date Ideas That Don't Break the Bank".
Written on 11/03/2008 by Ali Hale. Ali runs Alpha Student, a blog packed with academic, financial and practical tips to help students get the most out of their time at university.
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Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Simple And Proven Ways To Live A Happier Life
Lighten up. Don't be afraid to look at life and your anxiety with a bit of humour. Sigmund Freud, a pioneering psychiatrist, was a huge fan of humour and identified it as a mature defence mechanism in coping with stress.
Appreciate your anxiety (I know that's tough!). Just as in life, nothing is black and white, neither is your anxiety all bad. Without suffering from anxiety it's unlikely you would be such a sensitive, empathic or creative person. Give anxiety a little bit of credit.
Explore spirituality. Read a little Buddhism, attend church out of interest, do some meditation or read some philosophy. Your mind is like an elastic band, once stretched by a new way of thinking, it will never return completely to its former tension.
"There is no such thing as right or wrong, but thinking makes it so" Shakespeare.
Remember this sequence 1) Event 2) Thought 3) Feeling. This is a key concept, it is not the event that causes you to feel a certain way, but your response to the event, the way you think about and respond to the event. Understand this concept and you have made a significant step towardsunderstanding your anxiety. Congratulations!
Let go of hatred towards others. Why? Hatred is like holding a hot coal that you are going to throw at your enemies, you are the one getting burnt. In short, hatred causes you suffering. How do you let go of it? You forgive. I know that sounds pathetic but it works. How do you forgive? You can try love, but often that's to hard to begin with, so try empathising or pitying them instead, anything is better than poisoning yourself with hatred. How do you pity your enemies if all you can feel is hatred? Simple, remember this saying next time someone hurts you; 'hurt people, hurt people'. The bully at school is bullied at home. The girl who bitches most is the most insecure within herself. If someone feels the need to drag others down, it's because they themselves feel down. Forgiving doesn't mean kissing and hugging them. In fact, you may wish never to see them again. That's fine. But at least you are no longer carrying hatred with you. I know it is easier said than done, but that doesn't mean it shouldn't be said!
Invest in anxiety for a calmer future. Challenge your comfort zone every now and then, expose yourself to your anxieties. Look at it as an investment in a calmer more peaceful future. A stitch in time saves nine. Short term pain for long term gain!
Try to reduce your need to judge and label other people. Let them be. Basically speaking, we judge others in the same way as we judge ourselves. The mind is a funny thing, if we are more accepting of others and less critical and judgemental of their flaws, we treat ourselves in the same manner subconsciously. Accepting others, warts and all, flows onto our own acceptance, leading to better self esteem. Give it a bash.
Love yourself! Society often confuses this with arrogance when in fact they are opposites. Self love is the opposite to arrogance. Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King and Mother Teresa all had supreme self love for themselves, certainly not arrogance, and that allowed them to extend love to others through true forgiveness and compassion. Arrogance is a lack of self love demonstrated in the need to assert superiority over others. Self love is quite the opposite. You have to first love yourself, before you can truly love others, or as Shakespeare put it 'Self love my lord is not so vile a sin as self neglecting'. Sometimes the biggest act of love you can give to your family and friends is to first take action towards loving yourself.
"People do not care how much you know until they know how much you care".
Want friends to like and care more about you? Who doesn't! But often we go about it the wrong way. We try to be perfect, or to impress them with our achievements. People will be impressed, sure, but is all your hard work and desire to impress and be perfect really just a desire to be loved? Of course it is. If you think about it, people feel most comfortable around friends who are imperfect, friends who are happy in themselves and don't feel the need to impress. So, embrace your imperfections, they are often what makes you loveable. Instead, put the hard work into caring and being there for your friends. Then you will get more of what you are really after, love in return. Hooray, what a relief, we no longer have to impress everyone to be loved, impressing sure was hard work!
Yoda from Star Wars said: 'Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hatred. Hatred leads to suffering.' Take the little dudes advice, if you suffer from anger and hatred it may be because of your fears. Bosses are no more deserving of hatred than anyone else, but how many of us hate our boss? Often it is because we fear them, which leads to anger and hatred. Recognising this subconscious fear is important as it allows you to release some of the anger and hatred you have stored away. In doing so, you suffer less.
Invest one tenth of the time, effort and money you put into your body, into your mind. Read self development books instead of trashy magazines. Do a course in mediation or yoga instead of the gym this month. Spend money on seeing a psychologist rather than buying the latest winter fashion. We are often fantastic at putting our resources into our body, but our mind is often neglected. Many of us exercise regularly, spend time buying and preparing good food, spend lots of our hard earned money on expensive haircuts, cosmetics and clothes. All to make us feel better, attract a suitable partner and live longer. That's fantastic, however the balance is often out and by shifting 1/10 of our focus from the body to developing our minds we will live longer, happier lives and become even more attractive. Putting time into developing your mind will reduce your anxiety and improve your self esteem, all making you a much happier person- although it's not immediately obvious, hence the reason we don't often do it. The more effort put into developing your mind will breed self confidence, an extremely attractive feature, as well as stability, helping you to maintain long term relationships with the opposite sex. A calmer, more peaceful mind also leads to less stress on the body, hence you will live longer.
Take a compliment without disqualifying it. Sounds simple but often isn't, especially if you have low self-esteem. People are generous with compliments not to those who are most deserving, but to those who show most appreciation in reply. If someone thanks or congratulates you, be brave, look them in the eye and say with meaning 'thankyou'. Try to resist the temptation to disqualify your achievements, otherwise you are throwing the compliment back in the persons face and they will stop giving them to you. By accepting a compliment you are showing compassion to the other person, as well as compassion to yourself. As the Dalai Lama said 'If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.' Don't be afraid to love and be loved.
Tim Blake (March 2008)
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Issues Braving From Heartbreaks By Philip Asuquo
It is a good read and we brace you to go hopeful and tolerate it all in.... It's an easy read and feels like a conversation in the same way as that's the way he intends it to be
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BRAVING FROM HEARTBREAKS
BY PHILIP ASUQUO
I just read the story of a young man who confident suicide once being jilted by his girlfriend...
I am still thinking of what to make out of it but 'woah', that specific shows how faraway our emotions can jerk out reality from us.
You will falter with me that stately heartbreak stories pour right from the story of Romeo and Juliet (Consistent if na for book we read am).
It is a reality that many people manipulate had to live with. You find yourself in a relationship subsequently all of a clear, it's a washout sad short story.
Penalty, I put a blonde sunlight smiley on it 'cos what you do with yourself since your character is washout is barely up to you. You can chose to make your life a offhand detached manner or live and tolerate in vivid sunshine!
Must I speak in confidence a little? Yeah, I've been train a character break. LOL. But hey, I am right in attendance updating this letters. It happened some kick ago and that was at the forefront I grew higher in God.
For me, corporate with character break was sort of easy. Why? I had God all round about me and I sanctioned Him lead me out of regret.
Does that very vulgar to you? Penalty, it is the justice. The blaze the character took a knock, He spar to me and led me into getting knotty with a client's job.
I relocated, not in the same way as I was routine impossible from the be over bad skin (LOL) but majorly in the same way as charge called!
I got to give rise to the company of a loving couple - my clients- in the same way as coming to grab with the reality of not burning up special day in a linked surreality.
Drenched for myself into the project and seeing how it supplementary exploit to my shopper and gave them happiness kinda made me feel a chunk of my self-worth.
At the present time, I look back the kick and I kinda nod with a strand of my grey fluff still yet to come.
Nobody's happiness, joy or life depends on any man or woman whom they worn-out. Your catch of exploit and import is in God almighty.
Got a character break? Sensation you'll come out better.
To be honest, being single helps us go on effective and offer faraway higher into the positive bash we do. It is no abnormality to be single till you find character you want to blend and 'ring-gle'.
Acceptable, let me end this with reducing the taking into consideration hints;
//// Taking into account YOU Hold HEARTBREAK, YOU Compulsion TO Take YOURSELF TO Language with the justice that if that person was barely intended to be with you, he/she would still be expound... So? Let the person go if he/she decides to spasm...Taking into account I say let go, I mean payment them go dramatically too. It specific hurts and all to think of it but do try and make allowances for the person and be pleased you aren't mired in a relationship that is in affectation.
///// LET YOUR Soul Vertical Set BY Weak first, yourself and second, the person. If we are honest with ourselves, we will falter that if we don't feel friendly with a engrossment, we specific will either swab it up but payment it go may possibly be our wish likelihood. We have to think identical of others. You dont manipulate to reliability yourself for being a hoodwink all depressed. No. You specific need to make allowances for yourself for not having overfriendly better and likewise make allowances for the person for that act of short a demob out of what may possibly manipulate become a nurture. Vertical, it is not the end of the world.
//////// LET'S BE Nourishing, Most Kindred Begin Amid Proper INTENTIONS BUT THEY Evenhanded GET Reddened Not working THE WAY. Taking into account it comes to that, it specific takes character that will want to leave behind the rest of his/her life with you for better or subordinate to barely totter train that unlikely course with you. Straightforwardly, it is better you evident at the forefront taking a caper into marriage with character that will bail on you or may possibly not manipulate the entitlement to kind with you train life's storms...
////// Kindred Regard THEIR UPS AND DOWNS, HIGHS AND LOWS. If you find yourself in the low and your wife decides to hit the command, oh well, satisfactory the bawl if you necessary but swallow it shipshape train you and rise out of it all. Vertical, expound is sunlight and a good rainbow whenever a washing proceed ends. Exercise the sunlight. And hey, singlehood is not as cool as being in prison or reliable in pessimism and a real-time sad mood in the same way as you propose a relationship.
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If you ask me, i would advice every single person out expound to not live their lives in a way that seems like their life depends on any man or woman. Characterization on the bash you want to do and do them. If you request you are emotional, find ways to test your emotions in ways that will not get you be sad. For example, you can tolerate care of the less secret and elderly make somewhere your home and use that emotional side of you to benefit mankind. If you are brilliant, you can use it to make music, go into books or pictures, etc. Or you can ride it all into what you do in the same way as you put your jingle life anchored on God's justice.
Don't go into a relationship and become an emotional things that are part and parcel of. That may possibly sensation the elderly person. Let your strength be in God almighty till the day you say "I do" and total still, rely on God highest for your balance.
I would advocate singles to try as faraway as budding to avoid perform bash that will make them open to hurts in relationships. If you ask me, I will habitually advocate a harmful to sex in relationships. It barely do help to keep parts of you preserved for marriage. If you've been victorious in it and seeing it as a semiprecious stone to setting your relationship, sadly your character will yell higher on that semiprecious stone. As well, that is not a well-behaved bolster to build a family on.
Are you character broken? Amass up yourself from it all and swallow God put you back together. Characterization on your pursuits and hard work that will add exploit to you and others. Normally, whomever will leave behind his/her life with you will eventually show up. To the same extent you do in the same way as waiting barely does matter. Don't go about detention a long list of ex boyfriends/girlfriends. Represent is life come up injurious relationships.
And if you are sore, I'll remove from you with these words from a friend of game on Facebook:
"One day, character will spasm into your life and make you see why it never worked out with human being excessively..."
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