The Boyfriend Guide How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Stop Acting So Distant

It is a terrible feeling when you think that your boyfriend may be drifting away from you. You can sense that he is wanting to spend more and more time without you and that has you worried. I don't want to intentionally scare you, but you do have to really take notice if you can tell that he is acting differently and you suspect that it may mean that he is thinking about leaving you. It's not like you expect him to be with you ALL of the time, you know that it is healthy for the two of you to each have your own life. You also know that it is not really that good of a sign if he seems to want to spend most of his free time away from you.

It's true that guys are not as into the closeness thing as much as women are. You can't really expect to turn him into a guy that wants to cuddle with you all day long. That being said, I am pretty sure that you know your guy well enough to be able to see that there is something amiss. It may not mean that he is off dating another woman, but it may mean that your relationship is in danger.

HERE IS SOME ADVICE, A BOYFRIEND GUIDE, ON WHAT TO DO IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR BOYFRIEND IS ACTING DISTANT:

1) RELATIONSHIPS CAN GET OLD QUICK IF YOU DON'T ACT SPONTANEOUS ONCE IN A WHILE.

You may have just fallen into one of those relationship ruts that you don't really see until it is too late. And if you are in that kind of a rut, there is a chance that your boyfriend is just kind of bored with the relationship. Breathe some new life into the relationship by trying to be spontaneous every now and again. That is one of the things that couples usually do naturally when they first get together. And it can help you to stay together if you think he is acting too distant right now.

2) ASK HIM IF THERE IS ANYTHING ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP THAT HE WANTS TO CHANGE.

Just be prepared for the fact that you may not like his answer to this question. And that some men are just not that good at identifying what they would like to be different. Still, it does not hurt to give him a chance to say what he may be thinking and it may help you to gain some insights as to why he is acting distant with you.

3) FIND A WAY TO MAKE THE CONNECTION THAT YOU TWO SHARE BECOME STRONGER THAN IT IS RIGHT NOW.

All relationships have their ups and their downs. And there are going to be times when your boyfriend is acting distant and it does not mean that there is anything at all to worry about. You can help to safeguard your relationship with him by actively working on making the bond that the two of you have become stronger. Whether that means that you spend more time talking, going places as a couple or just getting away for a weekend every now and again making your connection grow stronger can be the best thing that you can do.

If you are struggling with trying to WIN YOUR EX BOYFRIEND BACK, then you need to really know what works and what does not.

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