Celebrating The Highly Sensitive Man

Dr. Judith Orloff

Sensitive men are incredibly attractive. They are path-forgers in the new paradigm of the evolved man. Strong and sensitive. Intuitive and powerful. They're able to give and receive love without ambivalence, being "unavailable," or commitment phobia.

In my book Emotional Freedom, I write extensively about the power of empaths and describe strategies for how empaths can stay centered and strong in an overwhelming world. Since I'm an empath and worship sensitivity, I want to help empathic men (and women) cultivate this asset and be more comfortable with it. Empathic men often have a harder time than women because in Western culture sensitivity may be seen as a weakness or too "feminine." This is a huge misconception. The new evolved man is skillful in balancing both the masculine and feminine in himself, embodying his full power.

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Its Like A Roller Coaster Kind Of Rush

"Love Song" by Taylor Swift may just end up being the best pop song this decade that was not written by Gnarls Barkley. Even with its fiddles and twang, the song was instantly accessibly to anyone with ears that would make anyone want to write their own song. Usually whenever artists try to recreate that one big hit on their next album they fail miserably but somehow the eighteen year old was able to catch lightning twice with the equally likeable, if not slightly more mature sounding Love Story off her sophomore outing FEARLESS.

Given her age it is forgivable for her Disney version of the Baird's ROMEO AND JULIET where the guy gets the girl with the family's approval. And who knew Shakespeare and banjo would go so well together? While the build up of the bridge makes you want to hunt down one of the Jonas Brothers (who gets addressed as a "scared little boy" on the sarcastic "Forever no burning pictures, no cheaters who forgot to say no. The closest comes on "Tell Me Why" but it is not as spiteful as anything her debut. Swift is more ambivalent about failed relationships on FEARLESS like on the slow piano based "You're Not Sorry" but Swift sounds more morose than angry that they fell apart.

It is easy to write off Taylor Swift writing as just a school girl diary put to fiddles (remember the line, "wishing on a wishing star"), and she unabashedly admits she likes to write songs about boys, but no teenage has been able to craft songs this catchy since Debbie Gibson. "Fifteen", a song about freshmen memorized by upper classmen can be relatable to girls going through it now, graduates looking back on high school, middle schoolers looking forward to high school, and even us lecherous dudes who took advantages of those innocent girls (I miss high school).

And that musical growth is the heart of FEARLESS as Swift turns down the fiddles and banjos and turns up the guitars and orchestras (see "The Way I Loved You"). Then for something completely different is breezy, hum along "Hey Steven" where Swift's singing is so carefree she even starts laughing after the line, "All those other girls, well, they're beautiful, but would they write a song for you?" That same vibe, right down to the humming is also featured on "Breathe" which finds Colbie Caillet helping out with the writing and backing vocals. And Taylor's down home drawl fits right in to Colbie's campfire beach song writing.

If FEARLESS is an album this teenager can produce, one can high hopes when Swift gets some miles under her and evolves past all the songs about boys and grown even more musically and invites in more influences. The album closes with what could be a precursor, "Change" (written for the Olympics compilation album) where she sings Halleluiah and about revolutions that could have come off cheesy from others of her age but cannot sing along when it was Swift that is asking. It may have just been a high school anthem rising up against the rival team now, but wait until she gets out in the real world for awhile and create real change. If only in musical term.

SONG TO DOWNLOAD - HEY STEPHEN

FEARLESS gets a on my Terror Alert Scale.

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Baker Scholar At Harvard Business School

And youve got to kill him before he gets 272. I dont baker scholar at harvard business school therell be anybody there from Markdale. Plumer, of the ruffled plumes, bent his knee for Phillips to slide the chair beneath him. It is equal to the rest, and extremely good.

At a new summons of the baker scholar at harvard business school Lochleven, the page undid the door, and admitted her into the anteroom, asking her pardon for having withstood her, alleging in excuse, that the Queen had fallen into a heavy slumber since she had broken her fast. Softly throbbing, voice and strings arose on sensuous crests of song, died away to whisperings and caresses, drifted through lovedusks and twilights, or swelled again to lovecries barbarically imperious in which were woven plaintive calls and madnesses of invitation and promise.

Now that I was remembering what an unemotional levelheaded man he was the effect became accumulative. She lighted the gas, and, as she removed the little velvet hat, she felt her lips still tingling with the kiss.

The metal baker scholar at harvard business school out far more brightly than it had done before, and gave Redwood a clearer view of the encampment than had yet come to him. The work required much correspondence, not only with missionaries and others living among savages, to whom he sent his printed queries, but among physiologists and physicians.

The girl now baker scholar at harvard business school quite anxious, and wondered why the old woman had not driven her flock over the hill. You know, its all in the matter of talkin, an Killeny cant talk.

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Its Touch My Heart

A poor boy loved a rich girl.

One day the boy proposed her.

Then the girl said, "listen! your

monthly salary is my daily hand

expenses. Should I be involved

with you? How could you thought

that? I will never love you. So,

forget me 'n get engaged with

someone else of your level."

But somehow the boy could not

forget her so easily.

10 years later.

One day they became face to face

in a shopping center. The lady

said, "Hey! you! How are you?

Now I'm married. Do you know

how much is my husband's

salary? Rs. 2 lac per month! Can

you imagine? 'n he is also very

smart."

The guy's eyes got wet with tear

by hearing those words.

After few minutes her husband

came before the lady could say

something to the guy, her

husband started to say by seeing

the guy.

"Sir! You here? Meet my wife."

Then he said to her wife, "I'm

going to assist a project of sir,

which is of Rs. 200 crore. 'n do u

know a fact? Sir loved a girl but he

didn't get her. That's why still he

is unmarried. How much lucky the

girl was. Isn't it? Now a days who

can love like that way?"

Moral: Life is not so short. So,

don't be so proud of yourself and

damn others...

Situations change with time. Every

one should respect other's love..!

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Dating Online In Seattle Staying Positive While Looking For Love

If there was one thing I learned while dating online in Seattle it's that you have to stay positive when you are dating online, you will go through rough times like you would any other type of dating, but you just need to work through it.

When I was dating online I had to distance myself from a ton of people who were negative towards online dating or just dating in general, because they would just drag me down with them, and that's the last thing I wanted. Now I don't mean you should just totally cut off contact should they be your friends, just limit the time you spend with them when they are in an anti-dating mood.

Another thing that I found good with staying positive was to avoid hanging out with couples as much as I could, because they just kind of bring you down, especially when I could have been out mingling with other singles in Seattle.

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People Of Walmart Fat Hatred And Classism Rolled Into One

Some language and partial nudity warnings on the videos above! Have any of you seen that People of Walmart website or associated videos like I have posted above? The People of Walmart website has endless viruses on it now. My browser just blocked it. GOOGLE THE TERM "PEOPLE OF WALMART" IF YOU WANT TO SEE IT, BUT BE WARY OF YOUR COMPUTER'S SECURITY. I wonder if some outraged objects of rude photographs hacked the place? The first video has pictures from them, but the second two are one's I believe were inspired by the "People of Walmart" website.I hate Walmart and do not shop there. The food is gross and an MSG laden mess. The produce rots after three days. Ever since I moved away from my rural area I stopped shopping at Walmart but trust me there is empathy for those who have few other choices for their shopping. In my old rural town if you refused Walmart and needed a plastic trash can or even a package of underwear, you'd be driving two and half hours to find other options. Walmart famous for lower prices though that could be argued a bit, is dominant in rural and poorer urban areas. The crowd that can't afford Whole Foods or Trader Joes or even your regular smaller grocery store is flocking to Walmart.HOW ON EARTH DID TAKING PICTURES OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE LESS MONEY AND LESS LITHE BODIES AT WALMART BECOME SO IN VOGUE?. The videos above disturb me, the one with the lady that is around my weight 500lbs being called 1200lbs, there was some conflict for me even posting it, but 8,000 people have already seen it. Maybe if she sees it, she can get it taken down. This tells me if I was on a scooter at Walmart in my 500lb or near 500lb glory, someone could take a video of me and let the rude comments begin. She is a person in my position getting endless assumptions and judgment!Young people flock to these websites to laugh at the clothes, the fat people and many people who really are mentally ill. The mentally ill in some of these pictures look to have dementia in the case of some of the elderly or even schizophrenia. They should not be mocked but helped. There are pictures of people who have soiled themselves, and that really upsets me because there endless medical complaints that can cause that to happen such as Chrohn's Disease. It's horrifying enough when it happens even if someone is not there to take your picture and plaster you across the internet.To me these videos are a sign of an increased narcissistic culture where if people don't match the skinny and healthy bodies of the top 15% elite on our TV screens that they are to mocked and made fun of. YES, THERE IS THE CROWD WHO DRESS HALF NAKED AND NEED SOME LESSONS ON MODESTY, WHO CLING TO PROMISCUOUS WAYS AND DESIRING TO SHOW OFF. THERE ISN'T MUCH EXCUSE FOR WEARING DIRTY T-SHIRTS WITH THE F WORD ON IT, OR WEARING SHORTS WHERE THE BOTTOM OF YOUR BUTT IS DISPLAYED TO THE WORLD, BUT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO ARE SIMPLY POOR.When you are poor clothes are often ILL-FITTING and if you gain weight, you can't buy new ones. Even thrift stores if you wear over size 14 for a woman, there is very little choice for a bigger woman to get cheaper clothes. There were times when I was so poor, and this was during my weight gain, where I had to wear skirts with ripped out hems. Even today those memories of not having good enough clothes to wear are not one good ones and yes it did affect my job getting abilities. Thrift stores and volunteer places weren't stacking up the clothes for the over 400lb set. ALSO IN THE LAND OF THE THIN, MANY CLOTHES NOW BEING PRODUCED LOOK HORRIBLE ON FAT PEOPLE! THEY REALLY DO. THE FASHION DESIGNERS ARE NOT COMING UP WITH FAT FRIENDLY CLOTHING, BUT STYLES THAT LOOK UGLY ON FATTER OR EVEN PLUMP PEOPLE. IN OTHER WORDS THEM DESIGNING ALL THE CLOTHES FOR ANOREXIC MODELS MEANS THEY LOOK BAD EVEN ON NORMAL PEOPLE. I special order all my clothes from one plus sized company because I refuse to wear tight uncomfortable clothes that do not cover anything. I once had some pants split open in my 20s where I had to run for the hills. Sadly some of those more innocent folks get their pictures put online too.THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO DO GET THEIR PICTURES TAKEN ON THESE WEBSITES WHO AREN'T DOING ANYTHING THAT OUTRAGEOUS EXCEPT BEING TOO POOR OR TOO FAT IN THE WRONG PLACE. POORER AMERICAN PEOPLE HAVE VERY POOR HEALTH, THE MISSHAPENED BODIES ARE AN OUTCOME OF A TOXIC ENVIRONMENT, POISONED PEOPLE WHO ARE UNDER EXTREME STRESS AND STRAIN. IN OTHER WORDS MANY OF THESE PEOPLE WITH ODD SHAPES AREN'T CHOOSING HOW THEIR BODIES LOOK. THE OBESITY AND ODD WEIGHT DISPLACEMENT, SKIN PROBLEMS, AND FLESH THAT IS ANYTHING BUT SMOOTH IS OCCURRING DUE TO THE VERY ENVIRONMENT THEY EXIST IN. IRONICALLY THE PHOTOS ARE BEING TAKEN IN THE VERY PLACE HELPING MOVE THAT ALONG, WITH ALL THE BAD AND PROCESSED FOOD. AMERICA IS A VERY SICK PLACE NOW, AND IT'S SHOWING IN THE HEALTH OF THE MOST POOR AND VULNERABLE. ONE CAN SEE THE MORAL, SPIRITUAL AND HEALTH DECLINE OF AMERICANS. SOME SURELY ARE MAKING BAD CHOICES, BUT OTHERS LOOK LIKE PEOPLE JUST BEATEN DOWN WHO ARE BARELY FUNCTIONING DESPITE ALL THEIR EFFORT. OTHERS ARE FAT PEOPLE PROBABLY LIKE ME WONDERING WHY THEIR BODY HAS TURNED AGAINST THEM SO VICIOUSLY? OTHERS ARE SICK, OR SEVERELY MENTALLY ILL.I have been considering the sheer numbers of people in American society are marginalized. What is it now 80-70% of the population? Anyone not thin and connected enough to get a good corporate job? If you think about it, if all people see as normal on their television sets is the marble counters and under 120lbs crowd for the women and under 180lbs for the men? I suppose some lesser minds may consider them fodder for abuse and mocking. MAYBE THERE IS AN AGENDA BEHIND WHY THE ONLY TIME ANY OF US GET TO SEE ANY WORKING CLASS OR POOR PEOPLE NOW [OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES IN MY CASE] IS AS OBJECTIONS OF DERISION, RIDICULE OR WHEN THEY ARE GETTING MARCHED OFF TO JAIL ON OUR TV SCREENS. MAYBE SOME OF THE FOLKS IN THESE PICTURES NEED TO REJECT MATERIALISTIC OR OVERLY SEXUAL AMERICAN CULTURAL MESSAGES AND REGAIN SOME OF THEIR SELF-RESPECT AND SHOW IT IN THEIR DRESS. I AM OLD ENOUGH TO REMEMBER WHERE DIGNITY WAS AN IMPORTANT FACET OF LIFE. PEOPLE OF WALMART FOR ALL IT'S SHAMING TECHNIQUES THOUGH IS PART OF THE PROBLEM SCOOPING UP BOTH INNOCENT AND GUILTY INTO ONE TOXIC WEB. Sure even I will worry about the moral degradation and lack of self respect that occurs in some of these photos but consider the fat hatred shown, the meanness to the old or anyone who is DIFFERENT. Sometimes when I look at that website outside of the willful degenerates or ones brainwashed about what looks "sexy", my thought is well at least someone is dressing a bit differently!The fact that "People of Walmart" videos and websites even exist is upsetting, that now if you are poor or fat, it's open season for you to be abused on the internet. THE WEBSITES AND VIDEOS TO ME SHOW THE FAT HATRED AND ALSO THE CLASS ISSUES THAT ARE PREVALENT WHEN IT COMES TO OBESITY.

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