Great, short technique on flirting which is also useful in lots of social and sales situations.
1) When you see someone that you like smile at them.
2) Imagine yourself approaching them and feeling confident and at ease. See yourself speaking enticingly to them and then step into the movie.
3) Imagine two different scenarios. In the first, they reject you and you walk away confidently smiling and feeling glad that you didn't waste any time on them and that it's their loss.
4) Imagine then scanning around you for someone else nice. In the second, imagine them smiling back at you and accepting you and talking with you.
5) Imagine making them smile and laugh and enjoying yourself with them. Focus on making them feel really good around you rather than on having them like you. The better they feel around you, the more they will want to spend time with you.
6) Meet as many people as you can.
Bandler, Richard (2010-08-19). Get the Life You Want. HarperCollins Publishers.
Whatever you want Richard Bandler, the man who taught Paul McKenna and inspired him to greatness, can help you get it. Full of simple, potent NLP exercises that will take you minutes to do but will make your life permanently better, this incredible book is a must for anybody who has ever wished for anything but not found a way to get it.
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